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"Have you ever taken a lover," he asks.
"It doesnít matter," says the wife.
"Well if it doesnít matter, why donít you go ahead and tell me? How many?"
She pauses an electric second and finally turns and says, "Nine."
"Do you feel betrayed?" she asks.
"Well, I thought we had a commitment."
"There are no commitments," she says, "only bargains."
Interesting statement. We make lots of commitments in life, and we make lots of bargains. And sometimes the commitments we make and the bargains we make get confused, and we are unable to understand what is a bargain and what is a commitment. And for some, we are like the wife of the play, "The Real Thing," believing that there are no commitments, only bargains.
When we make a bargain, itís something like, "You fix my transmission, and Iíll pay you $200. If I donít keep my end of the bargain, and you fix my transmission, then you can sue me, because we have made a bargain."
A commitment however is based not on a contract, but on trust.
"I promise to take you as my loving and faithful husband, to have and to hold, from this day forth, until death us do part."
The only thing you have is a promise.
Now that is a difficult thing to deal with, because there are no contracts. There is just a promise.
On a bargain, we know where we stand. We have signed the dotted line, the other party has signed the dotted line, and in a bargain, we know what will happen if one of us fails to comply with the signed document.
But in a commitment, in a promise, all there is to support the promise, is simply the promise.
God makes a number of promises to us. In fact, some years ago, someone gave
me a little paperback book with the title, "The Jesus Pocket Promise Book."
The entire text was simply Scripture after Scripture after Scripture of things that God had promised.
In our lives, we often find that we are like the husband of the play, "The Real Thing." There are times when we want to tell people, "Hey wait a minute, I thought we had a commitment." When in fact all we had was simply a bargain.
We take our car in to be repaired, and it comes out and nothing has been done. I thought we had a commitment. I thought you were committed to helping me. No -- we just had a bargain.
You make arrangements for someone to help you in your Boy Scout Troop, but they donít show up. I thought we had a commitment, I thought youíd show up. No-- I decided not to, after all, it wasnít a commitment, just a bargain."
You vote for someone who has promised not to raise taxes, but they do. I thought we had a commitment. Noóthat was just campaign bargaining.
You come to the throne of God Almighty, and after living out a life in which the automobile repairman, the painter, the volunteer helper, the doctor, the wife, the next door neighbor, the teacher, the politician Ė after everyone in the world has made wishy
washy bargains with you. There have been no commitments, only bargains, and now when you come to God, you hear Him give you
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