Closing The Generation Gap
Sermon shared by Timothy Peck
Summary: A principle for how to close the generation gap and application of that principle to one specific group in the church.
Audience: General adults
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Every generation throughout human history has struggled with its own version of the generation gap between the young and the old. I can picture Adam and Eve complaining about the next generation, predicting the demise of the human race because of the values of their children and grandchildren. I can almost hear Adam complaining to Eve, "The problem with kids today is that they have no respect, no sense of sacrifice or responsibility." I can picture Adam and Eveís kids rolling their eyes, and whispering to each other, "Mom and dad need to get with the times."
It seems like every generation thinks that the next generation is worse than its own. Older people can tend to look at younger people with suspicion and concern. Younger people look differently, they dress differently, they embrace new technologies, theyíre filled with dreams and new ideas. Letís be honest: itís hard to take someone seriously who only has to shave once a week.
And younger people pick up on this; they feel as if older people donít take them seriously. Itís like the old Who song "My Generation":
"People try to put us down.
Just because we get around.
The things they do look awfully cold.
I hope I die before I get old. "
Younger people fear older people will always look at them as kids, even after they reach adulthood.
And younger people tend to disregard the wisdom of older people. They figure older people just donít understand. As a result, older people tend to feel unappreciated by younger people.
I think Mark Twainís comments about his father best sum up the generation gap:
"When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years."
The generation gap exists in churches as well. Many of the power struggles churches go through result from tensions between different age groups. Itís no wonder that older Christians start to get nervous when younger Christians start rising to positions of authority and responsibility in the church.
And itís also no wonder that many younger people simply give up on the established church and start their own thing. Before youíre too quick to condemn that kind of thing, remember thatís how Life Bible Fellowship Church started back in 1971. Our church founders were a group of idealistic young Christians in their late teens and early twenties who were distrustful of the older, more established way of doing church. So we did it our own way, making sure we did it differently than our elders did it. But here we are thirty years later, and guess what? We are the established, traditional church!
When youíre young as a Christian, you tend to not be taken seriously by others. I think back ten years ago, when I first became the pastor of teaching here at Life Bible Fellowship Church. I was 28 years old at the time, fairly young for a pastor of teaching. Our youth pastor at the time was a guy named Dave, and he was in his mid-30s, seven years my senior. Dave and I once we met with a seminary placement director to talk about hiring some of the seminary students as ministry interns to work with our jr. high and high school students. The placement director was in his mid-40s, and he assumed because of my age that I was the youth pastor and Dave was the teaching pastor. So this placement director
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