Sermon:
MELVIN M. NEWLAND, MINISTER
RIDGE CHAPEL, KANSAS, OK

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A. Have you ever heard the story of "Alexander and the Horrible, Terrible, Not Good, Very Bad Day"? If you havenít, let me tell it to you.

ILL. Alexander was a boy about 7 or 8 years old, & he had one of those days when everything went wrong, disasters one right after another. Nothing went right. "It was a Horrible, Terrible, Not Good, Very Bad Day."

For instance, when Alexander woke up in the morning, he discovered that he had gone to bed with gum in his mouth, & when he awoke it was in his hair. When he got out of bed he tripped over his skateboard, & then he dropped his sweater into the sink where the water was running.

He said, "I just knew it was going to be a Horrible, Terrible, Not Good, Very Bad Day!" Then he went to school, & it turned out to be a horrible day there, too.

After school he had a terrible experience at the Dentistís office. Then came supper, & he said, "We had cauliflower for supper, & I hate cauliflower! And on TV all I saw was huggin & kissin, & I hate huggin & kissin!"

"Then my bath water was too hot, & I got soap in my eyes, & I lost my marble down the drain. When I went to bed, Nick took back the pillow that he said I could have. And my Star Trek night light burned out, & I bit my tongue, & the cat decided to sleep with Nick & not with me.Ē

ďAll in all," He said, "it was a Horrible, Terrible, Not Good, Very Bad Day"

Now is it any wonder that when Alexander finally came to the end of that day, he heaved a sigh & cried, "I think Iíll just run away"?

B. Have you ever felt that way? Iím sure you have! Almost all of us have had days of anxiety & stress & frayed nerve endings, & we need to learn how to deal with them.

As I read the scriptures I find no instant formula for spiritual maturity. A lot of people are searching for one. They just want to have an experience or say a prayer, & have instant spiritual maturity. But it doesnít come that way!

Growth & maturity come through stress & strain & struggle as we endeavor to live the Christian life.

ILL. A few years ago Thomas Hobbs of the Univ. of Wash. & some fellow sociologists published their research on Human Stress. They listed many of the common experiences of life, evaluated their impact on our mental & emotional well being, & rated them according to the stress they produced in our lives.

This stress rating was expressed in what they called "Life Change Units, or LCUs." The worse the stress rating, the higher the LCUs.

For instance, getting a divorce is rated at 73 LCUs. Being pregnant is 40 LCUs. Remodeling a home is 25 LCUs. The stress of Christmas is rated as 13 LCUs. On & on went their list of lifeís stresses, each one rated in LCUs.

When we learn
Rennon Elliott
December 18, 2009
I have used this sermon very helpful for those that feel that life is down around the shoulders and find no place to turn. I have used this sermon in the past on hospital visits to help those in need of help and God''s words of encouragement. I use the sermon in the visit to draw the patient back to God as I draw the three titles to help those in need to call on the Lord. and then they find by my help that they are secured now in His word and sense, the presence of the Lord with them as the go on with a real direction now. thank you. keep up His work.