on many levels. Will he change? I donít know. But I do know this: whether or not he changes, God has a purpose for you in that marriage. Itís a good purpose. Itís a wise purpose. Itís a purpose that honors God. Itís a purpose that can bring you joy if you will trust in God and follow Him, even if your circumstances donít change; even if the husband stays a jerk.

"For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to make themselves beautiful. They were submissive to their own husbands, like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her master. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear." - 1 Peter 3:5-6 (NIV)

Why did they submit to their husbands? Because they trusted in their husbands? No, because they trusted in God. When you are tempted to give up, remember that God is in control, and He is loving and wise and good. He has not abandoned you; He has not stopped caring about you.

Trust in Godís Power

We become hopeless when we can see no escape from our situation. We despair when it seems impossible that our circumstances will change for the better. But if God desires to do so, He can make a way. As Job stated, "I know that you can do all things; no plan of yours can be thwarted".

"Ah, Sovereign LORD, you have made the heavens and the earth by your great power and outstretched arm. Nothing is too hard for you." - Jeremiah 32:17 (NIV)

* "Yes, but you donít know my husband. Heíll never change." - NOTHING
* "Yes, but you donít know my boss." - NOTHING
* "Yes, but you donít know my situation" - NOTHING

"God Will Make a Way" (Don Moen), c. 1990 Integrityís Hosanna! Music (ASCAP) (c/o Integrity Music, Inc.)

"God will make a way,
Where there seems to be no way,
He works in ways we cannot see,
He will make a way for me;
He will be my guide,
Hold me closely to His side,
With love and strength for each new day,
He will make a way, He will make a way."

God specializes in resurrections. He can bring life to dead relationships. He is the Creator; He can cause loving feelings and attitudes to be created out of nothing. He can transform people and situations in ways that we are unable to foresee. He can do it. If your situation seems hopeless, if it seems that nothing short of a miracle can save you, then you are in luck. God is able to do whatever it takes to fulfill His plan for you.

Place Your Hope in Christ

But whether or not God chooses to change our circumstances, ultimately our hope is not in what he is going to do for us on this earth, in this life. Our true hope is in Jesus Christ. Our true hope is in the forgiveness of sins and eternal life that come from faith in Christ. [That puts everything into perspective].

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, and into an inheritance that can never
Emmanuel Morel
October 20, 2012
This is so beautiful, My soul needed food and this is nuritious. Thank you!
Oathar Todd
November 3, 2009
Excellent and encouraging!