The story is told of a young man who was in a movie theater. As the lights dimmed, and he was loaded down with popcorn, cokes and candy, he began to pace up and down the aisle, scanning all the darkened rows. It was obvious he was looking for the people with whom he had come. After three or four unsuccessful trips up and down the aisle, he finally stopped and asked loudly, "Does anybody here recognize me?"
We all want to belong don’t we? We all want be known by others and to know that someone out there knows who we are and cares about us. We have a need to belong, to be in community together. That’s why we join clubs, fraternities, sororities, civic organizations, sports teams, PTA, and even churches. We have a need to be in community with others just like us or close to being like us. That’s part of how we’re wired.
It’s the way God created us. We’re meant to be in community with one another. God created Adam and Eve together so they wouldn’t be alone; so they would have support, nurture and care. Even Jesus needed that support. The first thing he did when he began his ministry was to gather a small circle of friends -- a group who would eventually become the leaders of the beginning of the church. Yes, he needed to train them, but Jesus also needed their support and their friendship. At the Last Supper, on the night he was betrayed by Judas with a kiss, he told them all, "I no longer call you servants, . . . now I call you friends." (John 15:15)
The disciples needed that assurance and that sense of belonging, too. And more than anything, they needed the sense of belonging to a family. Earlier that same night, Jesus said, "I will not leave you orphans. I will come to you." (John 14:18).
The famous poet, Robert Frost, once said, "Home is the place where, when you go there, they have to take you in." Home is the place to rest, to laugh, to eat, to sleep. It’s the place of our family, the social group where we love and are loved. The setting in which we grow and develop. The safe haven where burdens and joys can be shared. In our families we know we belong. In our families we can be secure.
Families are so very important. And that’s obviously why God chose that image to describe our relationship with him. We are not just servants, we’re not just friends. We’re children of God.
"All who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God. For you did not receive a spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received a spirit of adoption. When we cry, ’Abba! Father!’ it is that very Spirit bearing witness with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs, heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ." (Romans 8:14-17)
Paul says, "you have received a spirit of adoption . . .we are children of God."
I. We Are Children of God
This is perhaps one of the most powerful passages that was ever written. It tells us that in the Kingdom of God, there are no orphans and no step-children. Through Christ Jesus, our Savior, we are the children of God.