32And the king said unto Cushi, Is the young man Absalom safe? And Cushi answered, The enemies of my lord the king, and all that rise against thee to do thee hurt, be as that young man is. 33And the king was much moved, and went up to the chamber over the gate, and wept: and as he went, thus he said, O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! would God I had died for thee, O Absalom, my son, my son!

I want you to notice particularly the question in verse 32, for therein lies my subject: "Is the young man safe?" And I want to ask you to consider the question today: "Is The Child Safe?"

My brothers and sisters, the text deals with the concern of a father for his son. King David was man of great political power and influence. As King of Israel, David advanced his kingdom to its greatest glory. But despite all of the greatness that David achieved, this is one of Davidís weakest moments in his life. His son Absalom has turned on him and tried to overthrow David from the thrown.

Iím sure I donít have to tell you that itís a hurting thing when your child, after all you have tried to do for them, pays you back by literally biting the hand that has fed them. The Bible says that David had to employ thousands of men to protect him from his own son.

-- Imagine it. Having to run and hide from the child you have given life to!
-- Imagine it. Having to hire body guards to protect you from the child you have sacrificed and toiled for to put a roof over their heads!
-- Imagine it. Having to suffer the shame and embarrassment of fold who heard about Absalom°Įs actions and as your walk down a public street hearing them whisper, "There goes David. Itís a shame how his son does him!"

I become incensed whenever I see or hear of a child treating itís parent or parents in a disrespectful way. Some daytime television talk shows have given us a glimpse at whatís going on in some families today. Maybe youíve watched some of them. I wonít give them a free commercial by mentioning their names, for their names are really not that important. They all pretty much do shows on the same topics: "Kids Out of Control!"... "Children Off The Hook!" ... "Iím Afraid of My Child!" ... The list could go on and on.

When I was a child, I didnít always agree with everything my parents said to me. I didnít always like the way I was disciplined. I even rebelled to a certain extent, but my parents were still my parents and I was their child. And as their child I dare not rise up against my mother and father! If I had, who knows what physical condition Iíd be in today!

This story outlined in 2nd Samuel is one of those sagas which makes a parentís blood boil, but at the same time - you have to sympathize with David. Even though David had not lived a model life (and Iíll get to that in a minute) David was still a parent and I can imagine the pain and mental suffering that David must have been dealing with.

On the battlefield