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Matthew 6 – Part 4 – I CAN NEVER FORGIVE YOU!

I did something terribly wrong to a lady once by speaking against her and influencing my client (her son) to go against her. I was wrong and eventually my sin caught up with me. I knew I would have to apologise and so I went to her personally and did so. She said she did not forgive me and roasted me for my unprofessional behaviour. There was nothing more that I could do but try to win her trust again by being more responsible.

Those who don’t believe in Christ are not bound by the Biblical principles that I am to apply to my life. What about me? What happens when someone does something to me?

Matthew 6:12-15 (NLT) “... and forgive us our sins, as we have forgiven those who sin against us. And don’t let us yield to temptation, but rescue us from the evil one. “If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins.”

This seems like such a weak way to do things. Men like to just fight and then it’s done with. What is this forgiveness thing all about.

The old King James version of the Bible says “forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.”

The word "DEBTS" (opheilÁma) in the original language means “THAT WHICH IS OWED, THAT WHICH IS LEGALLY DUE.” When it refers to sin, as it does in this passage, it means “A FAILURE TO PAY MY DEBTS, A FAILURE TO DO MY DUTY; TO KEEP MY RESPONSIBILITIES.” (see POSB Commentary).

According to this passage, if I hold anything against another person and do not forgive them, then I am not forgiven by God. BECAUSE UNFORGIVENESS IS A SIN IN ITSELF.

One of the biggest lessons a leader can learn is forgiveness and so Jesus teaches His disciples on the mountain about this important principle. “Lord, if I am holding anything in my heart against anyone, help me to forgive them...." is probably one of the most important prayers I can pray.

The Bible says in 1 John 1:9 (NLT) says “...if we confess our sins to Him, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness.”

“... if we (ie Notice there’s a choice - maybe we will, maybe we won’t) confess our sins (ie admit to God that it is a sin, and that it is wrong, not merely feel sorry and shed a few tears. This is not about emotions. It’s about honesty with God. It doesn’t matter how you feel as long as you honestly see your sin as God sees it. Tears and feeling sorry for your sin is not confession. Let the tears come later.) to Him (ie to God, not everyone else), He is faithful (ie Faithful to forgive - He will always do this and can be relied upon) and just (ie Just to forgive - He died on the Cross and paid the penalty for our sin and so justice has been served. He is justly able to forgive us on the basis of what Christ has done, not