My Mistake, Im Sorry
GNLCC 2/1/2004 Joshua 22:7-18 James 1:19-21
Text Joshua 22:1-34

Is there anyone here today who has had to say these words or something like this words , my mistake, Im sorry this past week? Is there anybody here, who should have said these words this week, but never got around to doing it and there still a strain in the relationship. Sometimes just saying these words can take a load of our backs, or turn around a situation altogether to allow us to start over.

Our bible study this week will deal with the stress of relationships. For the most part, most of us want to get along with others with whom we live, work or come to be with at church. We want to have a good time. Yet we may discover we spend more time arguing with each other, than enjoying each other. Part of our problem is that many times we want to believe we are psychic. We genuinely believe we can read somebody elses mind. Have you ever said something like, I know what youre thinking. I know exactly why you did that. I know how your mind works.

Let me ask you something, If a mother tells her five year old son John, not to eat the cookies on the table and she comes back and the cookies are gone, why did John eat the cookies. 1) John is a bad kid and never listens to anybody. 2) John was hungry, and his mother usually lets him eat when hes hungry. 3) John knew if he ate the cookies, his mother was going to yell at him, but the cookies were worth the consequences of being yelled at or 4) John did not hear what his mother said because he was watching TV at the time.

Now the only one who really knows why John ate the cookies is John, and John might not even understand it himself. However the relationship between John and his mother is going to have some stress in it. All kinds of things we do, produce stress in others which in turns produces stress in our relationships to them. Which makes us angry with them and they with us. For our youth, stress is that stuff when we feel look grrroooh.

Report card time produces a lot of stress for children and parents. Our children cannot understand why we are so upset over their grades when they intend to make up for it the next quarter. We do not understand how they just dont care about their future. Doesnt 3rd grader Cindy know that if she gets a D she will not do well on the SATs in 8 years and seriously damage her chance at being a success in life? So we have both children and adults attempting to be psychic about the future.

We forget, the most important thing we have to offer each other is not good grades or good things but rather a good relationship. Jesus said, this is my commandment that you love one another as I have loved you. We are all too eager to throw this simple commandment to the wayside and still choose to try to be psychic in dealing with each other when misunderstandings occur. Its easier for me to guess