Learning to Pray
Obstacles to a Life of Prayer
January 23, 2005
Wildwind Community Church
David Flowers

Video clip of Ben Stiller saying grace in "Meet the Parents."

Do you ever feel like that clip pretty much sums up your prayer life? Now think about the difference between that prayer --an adult attempt to look spiritual in prayer -- hilariously failed though it was --and this simple prayer from a child:

"Dear God, please take care of my daddy,
mommy, sister, brother, my doggy and me. Oh, please take care of yourself, God. If anything happens to you, weíre gonna be in a big mess."

My goal in this sermon series on prayer is to keep it simple. I donít want to be Ben Stillerís blustering buffoon in Meet the Parents. Iíd rather be like this child -- few words expressing amazing truth in a simple way.

I want to talk to you this morning about obstacles to a life of prayer -- the stuff that gets in the way of our pursuing prayer as a lifestyle. I know the names of the heavyweights who have written on prayer -- Thomas Merton, E.M. Bounds, J.I. Packer, Emilie Griffin, Henri Nouwen. Anthony Bloom. I could go to those amazing books and mine for you the deepest truths about prayer - the most splendid, incredible insights on connecting with God -- and every week you could walk out of here knowing more about prayer than you knew the week before but not really find yourself praying more. God help us avoid the sin of hearing but not doing. Help me avoid the sin of preaching but not practicing, of imparting to others what I am not instilling in myself.

So as to help us avoid those sins, I am going to issue a simple challenge to you right here at the beginning. Will you commit to pray at least five minutes a day for the next seven days? Morning, noon, or night, I donít care. Will you commit to setting aside time in your schedule, clearing away all distractions, and making that time a priority? Will you realize that your intentions will not be good enough --we can earnestly intend to pray all our lives and never really do it. Will you understand that it is only the activity of prayer that counts, not wishing or wanting to pray, but only doing it.

This challenge is for everyone here today. New Christian, established follower of Christ, skeptic, seeker, whoever. God says in the Bible:

Jeremiah 29:13 (NIV)
13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.

Non-Christians here today, are you seeking God? You will find God when you seek Him with all your heart. Christians today, are you seeking MORE of God? You will find God when you seek Him with all your heart.

So will you partner with me today? Partner with me in setting aside time to seek God in prayer -- to look for Him, to learn how to communicate with Him, to become not just someone who knows more about praying, but someone who prays more.

The first thing we must all learn about prayer is that the constant temptation in prayer
Gordon Jones
February 2, 2008
Thank you for your thoughts. They will be helpful as I start the process of bringing before my congregation the need to get real in prayer.
Carol Patterson of Rev
December 31, 2007
I would like to use some of the things you wrote in a series I am doing on prayer. I especially appreciated the thoughts on expectations. I will be exploring what we are to expect when we pray. Carol