Summary: A that reveals the 3 steps to peace that are outlined in Philippians 4. Also contains a great picture object lesson for adults and children.

Philippians 4:4-7

4Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! 5Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. 6Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Big Idea:

Seeing things from Gods perspective gives us peace

Intro:

Hold up picture of anxious man.

(for actual picture go to

www.alcweb.org/index.asp?name=serphil4&type=sub

as this will not let me paste it here).

- What do you think he is feeling?

- What things do you think could have happened to make him like this?

- Does anyone feel like this man sometimes?

The Bible reading we have had talks about rejoicing and God’s peace.

What we are going to discover this morning is how to have God’s peace, even in hard situations.

If I taped this message and package it as the quick fix potion for peace in your life I would soon be a millionaire.

The reality is that it doesn’t work that way.

God desires to give us His peace but there are a few choices that we need to make along the way.

Let’s learn what they are:

Main body:

Read: 4Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!

Question: can you remember a time when you have gone through a really hard time? Maybe it was family trouble or financial

- Do you remember how you felt in those situations?

- It’s a hard thing to rejoice when things are bad.

Explain:

- Luckily Paul says that we only have to rejoice when things are good.

- Hang on a second!! It says always.

- And he even repeats himself to make sure we get it.

- Don’t you want to give Paul a good slap around the head and say “but Paul that’s alright for you to say, you haven’t suffered any hard times like me”

- We want to say it but we can’t, we can’t because Paul was writing this when he was in prison – facing execution

- No legal aid

- There were relationship problems between people in his church

- Other leaders creating problems for him

State: what Paul is saying is that even when the circumstances are not conducive to rejoicing we should.

Apply:

It doesn’t mean we have to pretend

It doesn’t mean we don’t get upset (time for mourning).

It doesn’t mean we can’t get angry as Jesus got angry.

It means that deep down, in the midst of the hardship and sorry we can still rejoice in what God has done for us.

No matter what happens, we still have that knowledge that God has saved us and one day we will live with Him in heaven forever.

Do you think that in 200 trillion years you are going to worry about your neighbour who persecuted you because you were a Christian?

Step 1) Imagine how God sees you situation

Read: 5Let your gentleness be evident to all.

Question: what does gentleness mean? If it went on being gentle I would fail.

I would like a dollar for every time Jo has said to me “Tim you are too rough” – hair brush

Explain:

- the key to this verse is the word gentleness

- The original word is complex and there is no one English word that we can use

- Gentleness means generous treatment of others even when they are treating you in an unjust way

- Very relevant to the Philippians who were suffering persecution

- sums up the Christ like way Paul has already encouraged us to emulate

- basically seeing people like God sees them

Illustrate: My shopping story

Apply: when things happen to you, especially when you are treated badly by other people because you are a Christian, we need to be filled with grace and humility

Step 2) be humble and gracious to others

What encourages us to do those two things?

Read: The Lord is near

State: Jesus’ return should affect our outlook and actions

Question: what do you do when important visitors come around? Tidy, get ready, we have a joke when our house is messy that we need to invite people around so that we clean it up.

State: the fact that Jesus is returning should motivate us to act like Him

Explain: early church didn’t know when Jesus was coming back

- the fact he was is enough

Illustrate: story of Dragar can you imagine how you would feel if you were Matthew? What if you were Dragar? Do you think Dragar deserves to be paid?

Apply: Paul is reminding all of us not to slacken off before our master returns home.

Paul has told the Philippian church what to do; now he tells them what not to do. Usually they are the complete opposite.

- We are meant to rejoice, what is the opposite? To be anxious

Read: 6Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.

step 3) is when we start to get anxious pray

Explain:

- often prayer is the 3rd or fourth thing after we have tried ourselves

- we are to ask God

- With thanksgiving – an attitude we have when we pray, we can have this attitude because we know that no matter what is happening, God will ultimately bring good out of it.

- Sometimes the result is not what we want or expect but we need to trust God

What is the result when we do this?

Read: 7And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Question: what is the peace of God?

A quiet confidence within regardless of trials or circumstances

Explain:

- God helps us have an inner calm even when things seem out of control

- This is why it transcends all human understanding

- What does this peace do? It stands guard

- Paul was writing this with a guard next to him

Illustrate: the guard was there as a filter, he could let certain people pass but not others, he could let Paul do some things

Apply: Peace is the filter in our lives; it guards the 2 things that create worry

- our hearts – wrong feelings

- our minds – wrong thinking

It was this peace that helped Paul go through the trials that he did and still be able to rejoice.

State: when we see things how God sees them, exercise gentleness to others and pray we receive Gods peace.

We see this pattern repeated by many of the great men and women of the Bible lets look at one.

Illustrate:

The story of Daniel and the lions den is a perfect example of these 3 steps being put into practise.

Read: Daniel 6:3-11

- Daniel had bad circumstances

- imagine if it were us – not allowed to pray or be killed

- What was Daniels reaction?

- when Daniel found out he didn’t go to the king, go into panic, he prayed

- notice he prayed asking for Gods help and with thanksgiving

- What would have been going through David’s mind as they were rolling the stone over the den?

- Verse 23 – he had trusted in his God even when his circumstances looked bad.

The outcome was that the king saw Daniels actions and this led to God being glorified.

Through the actions of our lives, God will also be glorified.

Conclusion:

- hold up anxious man

(for actual picture go to

www.alcweb.org/index.asp?name=serphil4&type=sub

as this will not let me paste it here).

- “none of us want to go through our lives like this man”

- Paul tells us to

- 1) step back from our troubles and see things from Gods perspective

- 2) continue to treat others well

- 3) pray – trusting God that He will bring about His will in our lives

- as we do this we start to go through life with less anxiety because we know God is in control

- our perspective on our situation changes to this:

It is then that we experience the peace of God which transcends all understanding.