This morning I want to talk especially to men and boys about bullying and intimidation. It seems to me that many Christian men think that bullying and intimidation are appropriate in the Christian church. Often these men do
the bullying and intimidation as a form of humor, unaware of the hurt that they are causing people. Some time ago I picked up a book of humor designed especially for Christian readers. At least 25% of the book was composed of what are called cold cuts, humor which intimidates or bullies.

An example would be: I know you are not two-faced, because if you had another face, you would wear it. I am glad that since that book was written,
another more important book has been written by Larry Crabb entitled "Encouragement". And if you are the kind of person whose sense of humor leads easily to cold cuts, I suggest that you read Larry Crabbís book.

You see, bullying and intimidating are a form of pride, and that kind of pride has no place in the believerís life and conduct. Rather than address those who may at times consciously or unconsciously bully and/or intimidate, I should like to encourage those who sometimes feel bullied and/or intimidated.

The Bible tells us of a time when a whole nation of Godís people, all except one man, felt intimidated. The man who was not intimidated was David.

David became a great psalmist. This morning I want us to look at a psalm which he may have written against bullies and intimidators. I trust that our study of it will encourage those who sometimes feel bullied and intimidated to realize afresh that our strength is not in ourselves, but in the Lord; and I trust that you will increasingly find the strength in the Lord not to be intimidated by non-Christian bullies. I trust that you will also find the strength to develop the kind of relationships with Christian brothers who act macho to rebuke them when they wittingly or unwittingly intimidate or bully.

When my wife was a student at Moody Bible Institute she had a roommate named Barbara, who in my opinion looked a little bit like Elizabeth Taylor,
when Elizabeth Taylor was much younger and much more innocent. Barbara
married a macho type man named Jim, who after he came out of the U.S.
Air Force became a pilot for United Airlines. He retired as a captain who flew jets and flew 747ís all over the United States.

Barbara and Jim have three grown daughters, one of whom is named Pam who writes beautiful poetry, some of which is very humorous.
About thirty years ago, when Pam was a teenager living in the Chicago area,
I would visit her and her parents.