Staff Picks of the Week:
Memorial Day 2013
Memorial Day 2013 Preaching Bundle »
Greater Love Video Illustration » Everlasting God Worship Music Video »
Sabbath Sabbath Preaching Bundle »
1 Outta 7 Video Illustration » Before The Throne… Worship Music Video »
Forgiveness + Repentance = Reconciliation
Our reconciliation with God has been made possible because of the forgiveness God has already provided through Christís sacrifice on the cross. If I respond to Godís forgiveness with repentance, then I am reconciled to Him. This opportunity to be reconciled to God is possible because God took the initiative in providing for our forgiveness! He has done everything He can possibly do in order for us to be reconciled. Now it is up to us and how we respond to the forgiveness He offers.
Likewise, in our relationship with one another, we must take the initiative in reconciliation. If we learn that we have offended someone else, we must take the initiative by being willing to repent of any offensive actions we are guilty of.
"So if you are standing before the altar in the Temple, offering a sacrifice to God, and you suddenly remember that someone has something against you, leave your sacrifice there beside the altar. Go and be reconciled to that person. Then come and offer your sacrifice to God." - Matthew 5:23-24 (NLT)
Also, if we have been offended by someone, we should take the initiative in being reconciled with them. (READ TEXT)
Since our series focus is on finding freedom in forgiving others, we will focus on reconciliation from the standpoint of one who has been offended.
In one Peanuts comic strip, Lucy demands that Linus change TV channels and threatens him with her fist if he doesnít. "What makes you think you can walk right in here and take over?" asks Linus. "These five fingers," says Lucy. "Individually theyíre nothing but when I curl them together like this into a single unit, they form a weapon that is terrible to behold." "Which channel do you want?" asks Linus. Turning away, he looks at his fingers and says, "Why canít you guys get organized like that?"
In our passage for today, Jesus tells us how to go about responding to an offense the proper way. As we think about being reconciled with someone who has offended us, we want to answer two questions.
1. When is it right to approach someone who has offended us?
A. When the person is a brother or sister in Christ - v. 15 - "brother"
Jesus makes it clear that the occasion when we might approach someone else about offending us is when it is an offense committed by a fellow Christian. After all, unbelievers can only be expected to act like unbelievers; but believers are to act in a far different way toward others.
B. When the offense is a sin - v. 15 - "sins"
We touched on this last time. We need to be careful and prayerful about approaching someone about an offense. Is it possible that the offense says more about me than them? Is it possible that my taking offense has to do with my having a judgmental or critical spirit? One must be careful and prayerful about approaching someone who has done something that has caused them offense. It is one thing for someone to offend you as a result of their violating the standards of God; it something else altogether for them to offend you as a result of violating some standard that you have established and think everyone else should abide by! Not
- Forgiveness: for Others
- All Sermons on Forgiveness: for Others
- Text Illustrations on Forgiveness: for Others
- Video Illustrations on Forgiveness: for Others
- PowerPoint Template on Forgiveness: for Others
- Scripture on Forgiveness: for Others
Join the discussion