Talk Right, Live Better

[Part 1 of 5 in the series, "THE SEARCH, Solomon’s Secrets to a Happy & Successful Life"]

2 Tune your ears to wisdom, and concentrate on understanding. 3 Cry out for insight, and ask for understanding. 4 Search for them as you would for silver; seek them like hidden treasures. Proverbs 2:2-4 (NLT)

Circle the phrases in that passage from God’s Word that tell us to do: “tune our ears,” “concentrate,” “cry out,” and “ask,” for wisdom and understanding, to “search for them as you would for silver; seek them like hidden treasures.”

Our two youngest offspring and their spouses were visiting Deb and me last weekend for Memorial Day and we all went together to enjoy the latest Indiana Jones movie. The theme that ties all of the movies in this series together is THE SEARCH for some valuable yet well-hidden and dangerous-to-acquire treasure.

Watch the two-minute movie trailer and see what I’m talking about…sorry but we don’t have any popcorn.

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=YaBtukt6cHA&feature=related

I think that one of the many reasons these movies have resonated so well with the viewing public is the sense of adventure they portray on the way to finding great treasure. Solomon says that our search for God’s wisdom and understanding should be like that - like someone seeking for silver and hidden treasure! When you think about it can be a very exciting pursuit!

We’re beginning a new series today called "THE SEARCH, Solomon’s Secrets to a Happy & Successful Life." Solomon was a very successful king of ancient Israel, and when he lived by God’s wisdom he was happy, so we’ll be excavating wisdom and understanding from the book of Proverbs written by Solomon. If we live by this wisdom and understanding our chances for living a happy and successful life will increase exponentially. That’s the great treasure we’ll find – happiness and fulfillment and success in life!


The first secret deals with communication. Good communication skills can drastically improve our chances of success and happiness in life and ineffective communication is often our number one problem in life.

Saying the wrong thing at the wrong time or not saying anything at all tremendously affect our relationships at home, at church, at school, at work, and even at play. Every aspect of our communication, our words, our tone of voice, our gestures and facial expressions, our spirit, our timing, and all the nonverbal communication habits we utilize, affect whether or not we succeed in achieving what it is we believe God wants us to attain.

EXAMPLES OF THE VITAL ROLE COMMUNICATION PLAYS IN OUR HAPPINESS & SUCCESS:

* Our communication can extinguish anger or escalate it.

"A gentle answer will calm a person’s anger, but an unkind answer will cause more anger." Proverbs 15:1 (NCV)

This proverb points us in the direction of making a positive choice in our communication. Every time we’re angry, or someone is angry with us, we have a choice whether or not we’re going to be gentle or unkind. Circle those two words, “gentle” and “unkind.” The choices we make in great measure determine the outcome of the conversations we have. And the outcome of our conversations determines the outcome of our relationships.

You must remember that we are not responsible to God for the other person’s response but we are responsible for ours. If we practice