Sermon:
The words of St Paul in his first letter to the Corinthians, from towards the end (thirteenth chapter, to be exact).

Itís one of the most familiar passages in the Bible, I think. Even if you have not studied it personally or heard it read out here on a Sunday morning before, there is almost no doubt that you have heard it read at some time, and most probably at a wedding.

I canít remember being present at many weddings where this passage hasnít been read and I canít remember taking many weddings where the couple havenít requested it.

Indeed, even those who do not know where to find the passage, when asked, "have you thought about what Bible reading you would like at your wedding?", almost invariably answer, "how about the love passage?" Do you mean "Love is patient and kind, love is not jealous or boastful or rude - that passage?", I ask. "Yes, thatís the one!"

And most of us clerical wedding celebrant types wince a little when this is said too, as we know, and as anybody who has been to Bible College or spent any amount of time studying the Bible knows, that this passage is really quite inappropriate for a wedding, and this for two reasons:

1. Paulís eulogy here is part of his discussion about how to use spiritual gifts within the church community, and is not addressed to couples.

2. The sort of love Paul is taking about does not seem to be the sort of romantic love that we associate with weddings.

Yet people continue to ask for it, because it is beautiful and poetic, and indeed, as a piece of verse, it surely must be the most beautiful piece that St Paul ever wrote.

And they ask for it too, I think, because, even though St Paul is not talking about romantic love, and even though he is not addressing couples, I think we recognise in Paulís description of love here some of the most fundamental elements that a long-term loving relationship needs if it is going to be successful.

"Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." (vss. 4-7)

If Paul is not talking about romantic love, what is he talking about?

íCommitmentí would be my usual response here: Christian love is not about feeling passionate towards lots of people, itís about commitment to their needs.

And thatís gotta be true, as far as it goes. But as I read through this beautiful poem of St Paulís again, I wonder whether Paulís understanding of love was really as devoid of emotional entanglement as the word ícommitmentí might suggest?

"Faith is passion", said Kierkegaard, and I suspect Paul would have agreed with him, and if faith is passion, surely love is passion too.

You see, the problem we have here with getting inside Paulís head to really grasp what he meant by íloveí is not only that he wrote