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I love Christmas; it’s a time of magical sparkle - I even love the annual tradition of Christmas shopping and present hunting!

One wisecracker has commented, “Christmas is a time when we exchange a whole lot of gifts we really like – for a load we don’t want!”

I guess we’ve all been in a position when we have received that indescribable gift – then been lost for words when we opened it in front of a doting relative! As someone perceptively said, “Christmas is a season of emotional family ties – especially when you have to wear them!”

I see all this as a challenge and adventure – especially when it comes to shopping for my wife Killy.

It hasn’t always been easy, though. There has always been plenty to learn. When we got engaged, I remember trying to buy Killy a dress for Christmas. I didn’t know her size so the lady serving me asked if she was bigger or smaller than her…ummm…what could I say…eventually, the shop assistant tried on the dress!

After many years of marriage, however, and many miles spent trawling up and down shopping centres, I have developed four criteria when it comes to buying a gift for Killy. It’s more of an art form than a precise science, perhaps, but nevertheless, these four things steer me away from the ‘panic buy’ and towards something more soulful and meaningful.

In the process, my four criteria remind me of the gift God has given each of us.

Two millennia ago, the apostle Paul wrote this:

‘Thanks be to God for his indescribable gift!’ (2 Corinthians 9:15), or as one translation puts it “a gift too wonderful for words!”

What then are the four aspects of my gift-buying for my wife Killy at Christmastime?

1) The Personal Gift

First, then, I want to make sure my gift for Killy will be personal – I want to find something that she can really appreciate. These days, I’ve stopped buying her what I want; after many years of marriage, I now know what she likes.

After all, it can be very disheartening to receive a present that doesn’t have the magic of that personal touch. Last Christmas a friend of mine received a bag of part-eaten sausages for Christmas that his mother-in-law had left over from a recent visit!

One of the greatest gifts in life that we can receive – especially at Christmas time – is the revelation and realisation that God knows each one of us personally, and wants us to know him personally, too. In the Bible, Psalm 139 is a startling and beautiful reminder of this fact:

‘Lord you have searched me and you know me. You know when I sit and when I rise. You perceive my thoughts from afar. You discern my going out and my lying down; you are familiar
Dennis Davidson of Open
December 14, 2010
Many thanks to our Father and to you for the gift of this Christmas message. God spoke to me as I read it.
thanks for your suggestion David Johnston - much appreciated :) j.john
Great Christmas message...perhaps he should publish a book entitled "4 Standards for Christmas Gift Shopping for you Wife." Very good points indeed.