Summary: Stations of the Cross, Station 1

THE WAY OF THE SAVIOR (LUKE 9:22-26)

When skater Michelle Kwan was 13, the junior skater who was still plotting her course in the world of figure skating went behind coach Frank Carroll’s back, submitted her application for senior competition, and aimed to transcend her age group. Kwan then pleaded with her coach to allow her to compete with skaters older than her, with more savvy and proper conditioning to peak at the right moment.

At that time, Carroll was an unknown coach, Kwan an obscure skater, and the coach was caught in an awkward dilemma of sending the precocious but eager teenager early to senior competition, where maturity was rewarded, and girlishness, play, and braces were penalized.

Coach Carroll, worried about, horrified for, and protective of his prized student at the same time, set the youngster aside, gazed seriously at his prized student, and told her of the emotional and physical demands of senior competition: “If you want to be a senior, you have to learn what it takes. You have to give up your baby feelings, that ‘I’m tired,?or ‘I’m sick.?You have to suffer.?(Los Angeles Times 1/4/93)

Kwan was delighted with her coach’s consent, took his advice to heart from then on, and spinned, jumped and skated her way to unprecedented heights. Two years later she swept all the major competitions in figure skating.

After Jesus had disclosed the first of his predictions, at Caesarea Phillipi, about his pending death, he issued a stringent call to the disciples, the crowd (Mk 8:24), and the wannabes, those who clamored to be with Him: “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.?

What does it mean to deny oneself, take up one’s cross, and follow Jesus? What expectations does Jesus have for us when we follow Him? Can we live up to them? And in what way is the return greater than risk?

SELFLESSNESS IS NOT OPTIONAL

22And he said, “The Son of Man must suffer many things and be rejected by the elders, chief priests and teachers of the law, and he must be killed and on the third day be raised to life.?23Then he said to them all: “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. 24For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will save it. 25What good is it for a man to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit his very self? 26If anyone is ashamed of me and my words, the Son of Man will be ashamed of him when he comes in his glory and in the glory of the Father and of the holy angels.?(Luke 9:22-26)

Augustine, the defender of the Christian faith who wrote ‘The Confessions? was a wild man before his conversion. His carnal lifestyle was outrageous even for a pagan’s standards, and he fathered a child out of wedlock. He even tricked his mother Monica, who begged him to return to Carthage, his hometown, and left her stranded at the dock while he boarded a ship to Rome for a taste of the city.

However, the renowned apologist accepted Christ in Rome, of all places, and after his conversion, he returned to Carthage, North Africa, desiring to put his past lifestyle behind him and served God as promised. Augustine’s first test came when he arrived at Carthage and saw a wicked former companion, who had played a big part in his slavish desires, had come to welcome him. Augustine trembled at the thought of his youthful passions, took a deep breath before disembarking the ship, and hurriedly walked past her to avoid any formal contact.

The woman who had come to meet Augustine was stunned, confused and upset by this lack of attention. She stopped him, thinking there must be a mistake, but he kept walking, and so she called out to him in a loud, spirited and alluring voice: “Augustine, Augustine, it is I, it is I.?Augustine took a glance, turned away immediately, and kept on walking with these words: “I know, I know, but is no longer I, it is no longer I.?(Adapted from 7,700 Illustrations # 6519)

The first criteria in following Jesus is to deny oneself. To deny oneself is not to hate oneself, or live in denial, or take up a vow of poverty. To hate oneself is to snub one’s heredity or personality, to live in denial is to deny reality, and to take up a vow of poverty is to escape society.

However, to deny oneself is to concede the right of ownership to one’s life and to transfer the deed to Him. It is to grant the power of attorney to Jesus Christ, so that God alone may have a lawful claim to your life. Errol Hulse said: “The practice of self-denial for the Christian means that his feelings, desires, and comforts take second place to the Lord’s will.?

To deny oneself is a positive, onward, proactive step, and not a negative, backward, passive step. It is not the repression, but the restrain of our emotions, desires, and wants; not crushing them, but containing them; not their disparagement, but their discipline. The old self tempts us to live a self-centered, self-fulfilling, and self-sufficient existence, but the new Master beckons us to live a God-centered, Christlike, and Spirit-led life.

A few centuries ago, Father John Joseph Surin was asked why, when so many people wished for greatness in God’s eyes, few are truly saintly. He said: “The chief reason is that they give too big a place in life to indifferent things.?(Disciplines of the Spirit 169-70, Dallas Willard)

God in Christ has saved you by dying in your place. He has given His life for your life, covered the unrighteous with His righteousness, and delivered us from darkness to light. Therefore, we owe a debt to Him, our lives are no longer ours, and we belong to Him. Jesus is the rightful owner of our lives by His redemptive death on the cross. He has purchased the existing lien, title, and deed to your life with a heavy price, paid the remaining mortgage you transgressed, and repossessed the parts, the body, and key to your life and made it all brand new.

He is not interested to limit your personality or ability or flexibility, but that you acknowledge what God has done for you and subsequently yield your life to Him, and let the Holy Spirit work in your life.

SUFFFERING IS NOT OPTIONAL

23Then he said to them all: “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.

My cousin who lives in Chicago is the first relative to accept Christ, and the first person I know of that encountered persecution for his faith. His parents practically disowned him. At that time, I was barely a teen, and like others, I shared this opinion about my cousin: “What a religious nut, an extreme position, and an ungrateful son!?

The worst was yet to come. On his wedding day, his mother threw a fit in church, attracted a lot of attention, and chewed up the pastor for talking about leaving father and mother and uniting with wife and becoming one flesh. We felt bad for my cousin and his wife, were worried his mother might hit the pastor and, of course, were embarrassed that we were relatives!

I asked my cousin about his conversion experience in an email correspondence and he wrote:

“My family had a difficult time adjusting to the fact that I was a Christian then. My father and mom were so upset that they literally threw me out of the house, and told me to live with my Christian friends. I had no option but to stay with my friend for a day or so trying to figure out what to do. However, my mom sort of recanted, and sent one of my sisters to call me home. It was a difficult two years of isolation from the church. My dad burnt most of my Christian books. However, it was a good time for me to sit down and learnt more of what I believed.

The good news is that as I looked back, all my sisters are Christians now, and recently I heard from my sister that my dad had decided to accept Christ. The only person left is my mom, and when she heard the news of my dad’s conversion - she sort of, resigned to the fact. I am not sure what this means, but that is what she told me.?(Via e-mail 6/13/00)

Crosses are not gold-plated jewelry, mystical religious icons, or wooden cosmetic crucifixes. They are burdensome, cumbersome, fearsome, and sometimes tiresome, but God has not called the disciples to a tea party, a group social, or a free lunch.

The cross is a scandal and a setback to the world, an emblem of suffering and shame, but the signature and stamp of Jesus Christ in the life of Christians today. Persecution suffered by Christians around the world reminds us how dearly Christians have paid for who and what they believe in. In India alone, 35 violent anti-Christian incidents have been reported in the first six months of the new millennium.

Jesus predicted his betrayal, rejection, and death three times ?once in Caesarea Phillipi (Mark 8:31), the next time on the way to Capernaum (Mark 9:30-32), and lastly, before reaching Jerusalem (Mark 10:32-34, Luke 18:31-33), but of his first prediction, Matthew (16:21), Mark (8:31) and Luke (9:22) all agreed on one thing: Jesus said he “MUST?suffer, the Greek word occurs in the Synoptic gospels. Another astonishing thing the three gospel writers did was to put the word “must?before the rest of the record on his suffering (Note: “must the Son of man suffer,?not “the Son of man must suffer?. Luke used “must?to start Jesus?declaration in Luke 9:22. More than any gospels, Luke records that Jesus?suffering is a must: “But first he must suffer many things and be rejected by this generation?(Luke 17:25) and “This is what is written: The Christ will/must suffer and rise from the dead on the third day?(Luke 24:46)

No ifs, buts, and maybes about suffering. It is absolutely necessary for the Son of man to suffer. Suffering comes also to all disciples of Christ. Todd H. Wetzel said, “When you follow Jesus, what happened to Him happens to you.?It is a not a matter of who, but on what occasion, to what end, and for what purpose. Taking up the cross is not your normal hardship, like studying, working, or parenting, but being expelled, fired, disliked, ostracized, or attacked for association with the name of Christ.

Matthew Henry said: “We frequently meet with crosses in the way of duty; and, though we must not pull them upon our own heads, yet, when they are laid for us, we must take them up, carry them after Christ, and make the best of them.?

So let us not beg God for suffering, but neither should we begrudge God when suffering.

SURRENDER IS NOT OPTIONAL

There is a question young people asked that used to bother me easily, especially when I was organizing group activities like going to a movie, a baseball game, or a youth conference, but now find myself instinctively asking the same question to people who invite me to conferences, seminars, or outings, no matter how exciting, nearby, beneficial or inexpensive they are. The question is: “WHO ELSE IS GOING??

The predictable next question kids ask is: “Is so-and-so going??And if you say, “No,?or “I have not asked him or her yet,?or “They will tell me later.?The subsequent question I hear is, “Why not??

The bad news for disciples is that no one can experience the way of the cross with them, or for them, or the same way like them. Not your parents, friends or chidlren. But the good news is that Jesus is ahead of us, and when we follow behind Him, we will never be separated and He is always in the front.

The four gospel writers recorded at least 14 times Jesus?use of the Greek phrase “Follow me?(Matt 8:22, 9:9, 16:24, 19:21, Mark 2:14, 8:34, 10:21, Luke 5:27, 9:23, 9:59, 18:22, John 1:43, 12:26, 21:19) to call the crowd and the curious to Himself, but the duplicate gospel accounts record only six individual calls given the call. Even so, not all answered this unique call of discipleship. Those who obeyed the call were identified as Andrew and Peter (Matt 4:19), Matthew (Matt 9:9, Mark 2:14, Luke 5:27), and Philip (John 1:43). They were rewarded with their inclusion as apostles. Not surprisingly, others who rejected the call and refused the journey remained nameless to the end ?the man who asked to return home (Luke 9:59) and the rich young ruler (Matt 19:21, Luke 18:22). They declined the call and missed the opportunity.

Fittingly, the last time Jesus uttered this command again was before His ascension to a finger-pointing Peter (John 21:19) to remind him not to look at, compare with, or inquire about others.

When Jesus said, “Follow Me,?he did not say where he was going, when he was leaving, and who else were coming, but only that who was ahead of them, who was providing for them, and who was deserving of them.

Conclusion: A disciple of Christ is a full-time, long-term, high-risk servant of Christ who, by enduring all things for the sake of Jesus Christ, will gain eternal life in the kingdom of God when Jesus comes in His glory and in the glory of the Father and of the holy angels. Augustine said: “Christ is not valued at all unless he is valued above all.? God has not called you to be a passive recipient, silent spectator, or a half asleep, half-hearted, halfway follower. A true disciple of Christ cannot remain a baby, a weakling or a deadwood. Wake up! Rise up! Let Jesus be the center, the head and the frontrunner of your life.

Victor Yap

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