Summary: Lessons about forgiveness that we can learn and show to others

Good For Me, Good For You

Psalm 32:1-11

Its not easy for us to admit our sins is it?

Its like the guy who went into the Hallmark store and asked the clerk

“Do you have a card that stops short of saying I’m sorry yet vaguely hints of some wrongdoing?”

Many of us do this with God when we’re not specific about our sins

We might tip our hat to our frailty but rarely fall down on our knees in real repentance before Him

Two elderly southern women were sitting together in the front pew listening to a fiery preacher

He was banging the pulpit and the ladies were cheering him on

When he condemned the sin of stealing the two church ladies cried out loudly “AMEN BROTHER”

When he condemned the sin of lust they yelled again

“PREACH IT, PREACH IT!”

And when he spoke out against lying the jumped to their feet and screamed “RIGHT ON, BROTHER! TELL IT LIKE IT IS…AMEN!”

But when the preacher-man condemned the sin of gossip the two got very quiet

One lady turned to the other and said

“Well, he’s done quit preachin’. Now he’s just meddlin’”

What sin shuts you up this morning?

Its easy for us to get upset with those who sin differently than we do

But its much tougher when the Holy Spirit starts meddlin’ in our lives

Psalm 32 is a very interesting psalm

It describes the experiences of a person passing from sorrows of conviction into the joys of salvation

This psalm has been classified by the early church as one of 7 penitential psalms

Among these 7 Psalms 32 and 51 stand out as confessional giants

As historically related to the life of David, and especially connected with the Bathsheba soap opera episode

Psalm 51 would have proceeded Psalm 32

David is really showing us here in Psalm 32 life’s most important lessons about sin, confession and forgiveness

He takes two avenues of approach

Remembering these lessons and Relaying these lessons

In our first half of Psalm 32 we read about and remember those lessons learned

Or we could call it “Good for me”

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The theme for Psalm 32 is forgiveness brings true joy

I. First Avenue - Remembering These Lessons

A. Lessons about results (1-2)

In these first two verses we see David examining the results of this forgiveness

What are those results?

The person who is forgiven is blessed

We are blessed in so many ways

And to be blessed of God is such an amazing concept

We often overlook how important and monumental it is

One of the old fashioned traditions that probably isn’t practiced much today is the act of asking for your future father-in-laws blessing to marry his daughter

Tell story of asking Alan for his blessing

We seek other people’s blessings and we need to seek even more the blessing of God

You know is something is said once in the Bible it is important

If twice, then you really need to take note

Repetition in the Bible reinforces a message and draws special attention

How blessed is he, how blessed is the man

This emphasizes how wonderful this blessing is

And as we talk about the blessing of forgiveness

We also examine the severity of sin

Note how David speaks of our sin in a three-fold manner

David calls sin: transgressions

Transgressions carry connotations of revolt, rebellion, rejection of God’s authority, rebellion against God’s Law

It is to trespass, it is a willing rebellion against God and His standard

David also calls sin: sin

The term sin is the principle, the basic term used in the Bible and is used for our failure to live up to God’s standard

It is the breach of God’s Law

The failure that all men are guilty of

Missing the mark. All have sinned, we all miss the mark

One of the arguments that people use to try and prove that you can lose your salvation is the fact that we continue to sin

If you can’t lose it when you sin, then you have nothing to lose when you sin, they say

There is a story about a former prizefighter that had been converted and thought God had called him to preach

The only problem was, while he thought he had the gift of preaching, nobody else had the gift of listening

So he couldn’t get a church

He got a little pulpit, found a street corner and preached to passersby in Chicago

He had two-or-three hangers on, friends that liked him

Two-or-three that hated him

And he had one man, a professed atheist who said

“I don’t believe any of the Bible”

These two would get into arguments

One day the preacher was ready for him

He said to the atheist

Listen if I can prove to you just one verse in the Bible is true will you apologize to me?

This so called atheist said “Yes I indeed would”

With that the former prizefighter reached out and took the man by the nose and twisted it so severely that blood ran down both nostrils

And then with a smile on his face he read Proverbs 30:33

The churning of milk produces butter, and wringing the nose produces blood

Then he said I want you to apologize to me because I proved to you at least one verse in the Bible is true

Just as surely as the churning of milk brings forth butter and just as surely as the wringing of the nose brings forth blood

We are all surely bound to sin

Whether you are saved or whether you are lost

David committed a horrible, heinous , hurtful sin

Yet he was a child of God

What we see is if a person is bound to sin, he is bound to suffer

He will not lose his salvation, but suffering follows sin as night follows day.

Sin, we all do it

Third David calls sin: iniquity in verse 2

This term denotes crooked behavior, perversion

This term is also a collective noun which means

That it denotes the sum of ones past misdeeds against God and man

You and I are not just guilty of sinning once or on occasion against God

We’ve got quite a track record

But these verses are about results

The results are forgiveness

Transgression, our rebellion against God are forgiven

God is a forgiver, and that blesses us greatly

Also our sin, our falling short of the mark is covered

The opposite of something being covered is exposed

When a person goes to God and truly repents of their sins and seeks forgiveness

Their sins are covered

God no longer sees a vile sinner but a forgiven child who belongs to Him

The third result it says, whom the Lord imputeth not iniquity

That means the Lord does not count it against him

God does not bring to remembrance the sins we have confessed and repented of

When God forgives He truly forgives

Not setting them aside to throw against us on another occasion

The wonderful results of forgiveness

Secondly we see

B. Lessons about resistance (3-4)

Failure to confess and repent of our sins is a common problem

Sadly for us the result is pain

In these two verses there are vivid descriptions of the physical effects of an unrepentant state

My body wasted away, my bones waxed old, my roaring, or groaning lasted all day

Your hand was heavy all day and night

My strength was sapped as in the heat of summer

Sin in your life without repentance can actually make your body sick

Its like David is saying God you are squeezing the life out of me

That is one way we can know we are saved

A test as to whether you are saved or not is if you can sin and just ignore it, forget it

If you are a child of God the Holy Spirit will not let you ignore it, or forget it

He will put His finger on the sore spot and push

Just like David said, thy hand was heavy upon me

Your sin is there, either is your conscious mind, or perhaps worse in your subconscious mind

You may kick it out the front door

But it will run around the house and come in the basement window

It may show up as an irritable temper, an inability to concentrate, sleepless nights, lack of joy, or as a physical ailment

Sin sickens the body

An illustration of this

Mother calls that dinner is ready

Mom ,dad, brother and sister sit down to this wonderful meal that mom has fixed

Everything is fine until brother asks Dad can I use the car tonight?

And sister says, no you can’t use the car tonight

You used the car last night, its my night to use the car

And brother says to sister You shut up I wasn’t talking to you I was talking to Dad

And dad says Don’t use the words shut up, we don’t speak that way in our house

And then brother says well she started it

Dad then shouts listen you kids I said shut up

And mother says you just told them not to say shut up

Dad then tells mom You shut up

And then brother and sister and father and mother are, just like that, in an argument

Dinner is getting cold, finally they eat a few bites

Everybody gets up and goes off somewhere

And about 30 minutes later somebody says

Has anybody seen the Pepto-Bismol?

What has happened?

Our bodies have reacted to our hearts, our minds, our spirits

Sin sickens the body

This is the lesson we learn about resistance to confession and repentance

But we then learn

B. Lessons about Responses

What is confession?

To confess our sin is to agree with God

Acknowledging that He is right to declare what we have done as sinful

And that we are wrong to desire or to do it

It is to affirm our intention of abandoning that sin in order to follow Him more faithfully

Confession of sin, not covering up our iniquity

Leads only to forgiveness and lack of guilt

The believer should never condone or attempt to excuse his sin

There are only two things that should be done about sin

Confess it and forsake it

David confessed his sin and experienced the Lord’s forgiveness

In doing this the believer is restored to full fellowship with God

The second avenue David takes us down is

II. Second Avenue - Relaying these lessons (6-11)

We as believers have a job to do

And that job is to relay these lessons to others

Good for me, good for you

A. Lessons about responses (6-7)

In these verses David is showing how we can relay the lessons about responses to others

He says that everyone who is godly pray to God while God may be found

We need to call upon God while we still have a chance

Once you have passed on it is too late

Remember the story of Lazarus and the rich man

Once the rich man had passed away and lifted his eyes up in hell, being in torment

He asked for just a small amount of relief

Just a drop of water on his tongue

He lived a life of luxury on earth

But now he dies an eternal death in torment

Your response to God must be during a time when He mayest be found

You must respond before it is to late

You cannot put off your decision

The grace of God is available now

How will you respond?

You must confess

For once you respond to His call we see that God becomes your hiding place

God Himself becomes our refuge and hiding place

Hidden from the strife and from the day of His wrath

Against all ungodliness

Your life is hid with Christ in God

Just like our sins are covered by His grace

So shall we be covered by His protection

B. Lessons about resistance (8-9)

In verses 8-9 God is telling us not to resist Him

He will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go

He says He will council you and watch over you

God describes some people as being like horses or mules

That have to be controlled by bits and bridles

Rather than letting God guide them step by step

They stubbornly leave God only one option

God longs to guide you with love an wisdom rather than punishment

He offers to teach you the best way to go

Accept the advice written in God’s Word and don’t let your stubbornness keep you from following and obeying God

If you resist God’s love, and His calling to come to Jesus

You will without a doubt be heading down the wrong path

Resistance lessons learned from verses 3-4 show us that it leads not only to spiritual but also physical problems

Resistance of God and His salvation leads to an eternity in Hell!

Finally we see

C. Lessons about results (10-11)

Many sorrows shall be to the wicked

Think about as a Christian all of the hard times you may have gone through

Think about the pain you may have felt

The sadness, the anger

Then think about how much worse it would have been to go through those things without the comforter by your side

Without the comforting hand of God

Things of this world would be unbearable

That is what the life of an unsaved person is like

Romans 2:9 says “There will be trouble and distress for every human being who does evil

Those that do evil are those who sin against God without confession, no repentance, no forgiveness

That is the unsaved person

Many are the sorrows of the wicked

BUT!, “he that trusteth in the Lord, mercy shall compass him about”

In other words “but the Lord’s unfailing love (His mercy) surrounds the man who trusts in Him”

The result of putting your trust in Him is you receive His complete, unfailing, unconditional love

To comfort you in those hard times

And then you can sing the song of verse 11

Be glad in the Lord, and rejoice, ye righteous. And shout for joy all ye that are upright in heart”

The ultimate result of giving your heart to Jesus is what the theme of this Psalm says

Forgiveness brings true joy

God wants to forgive sinners

Forgiveness has always been part of His loving nature

Romans 4:7-8 quotes from this Psalm and shows that we can have this joyous experience of forgiveness through faith in Christ

Rejoice in the Lord and be glad

The joy of forgiveness

Have you experienced that joy?

Do you know Jesus as your Savior?

You can be saved right now

And can experience that joy

You Christians

Have you experienced that joy lately?

Do you have unconfessed sin?

Bring it to God today