Summary: Instead of being bitter, or changing his name to something like "love" or "peace," Jabez turned to the Lord. He asked God to bless his life indeed. Let us boldly ask God for His blessings in an extraordinary empowering and enabling way.

How the Holy Spirit Can Lead You as He Led Jabez (I Chron. 4:9,10)

Illustration: Oh, that You would bless me . . . and that You would keep me from evil, that I may not cause pain! –1 Chronicles 4:10

When we read through the Bible, we’re inclined to skip the first nine chapters of 1 Chronicles because they’re just lists of names. But here and there we can find interesting nuggets of information. The two verses about Jabez are a case in point (4:9-10).

The chronicler paused to tell us that this man was "more honorable than his brothers" (v.9). Why was he so honorable? We don’t know for sure, but we can find some clues in his name and in a short prayer he uttered.

The name Jabez means "he causes pain." Who would want a name like that? His mother may have given him that name because of the intense suffering she experienced at his birth.

Instead of being bitter, or changing his name to something like "love" or "peace," Jabez turned to the Lord. He asked God to bless his life (v.10). Bible scholars have translated the last part of verse 10 either as a prayer to be kept from pain or as a plea for help so he would not cause pain to others. I believe Jabez was honorable because he pleaded with the Lord to help him live righteously so he would not cause others to suffer.

No matter what your name is, you too can be a person of honor. Ask the Lord to bless you and to make you a blessing to others today. –DCE

Make me a blessing, make me a blessing!

Out of my life may Jesus shine;

Make me a blessing, O Savior, I pray,

Make me a blessing to someone today. –Wilson

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God blesses us so that we will bless others. (Our Daily Bread)

1. The Holy Spirit used Jabez by leading him to overcome a painful background. Jabez’s mother gave birth to him with great pain, yet the Spirit of God allowed him to become a man of great honor. Many assumed that Jabez’s birth meant he must have something to be ashamed about. Samuel wrote, "Jabez was more honorable than his brothers. His mother had named him Jabez, saying, ‘I have given birth to him in pain.’" (I Chron. 4:9) Ask the Lord to help you overcome any pain, problem or disappointment in your background with the empowering of the Holy Spirit.

2. The Holy Spirit used Jabez’s faith, courage and persistence to ask God for a "blessing indeed". Samuel wrote, "Jabez cried out to the God of Israel, ‘Oh, that you would bless me indeed.’" (I Chron 4:10) Ask the Lord to help you approach God’s throne of grace with greater faith, courage and persistence to ask God for ‘blessings indeed’ instead of just merely for daily needs.

3. The Holy Spirit used Jabez by helping him endure the taunts of jealous brothers. Samuel wrote, "Jabez was more honorable than his brothers." (I Chron 4:9) Ask the Lord to help you to avoid giving into feelings of anger, frustration or discouragement when those who are closest to you cynically taunt you and your efforts to live an honorable life.

4. The Holy Spirit used Jabez by teaching him how to trust God for greater responsibilities. Samuel wrote, "Jabez cried out to God, "Oh, that you would bless me indeed and enlarge my territory." (I Chron. 4:10) Ask the Lord to help you to obtain all the skill, wisdom and energy necessary to increase your ministry responsibilities for the sake of His kingdom and righteousness.

5. The Holy Spirit used Jabez by guiding him to ask for God’s hand of blessing and assurance. Samuel wrote, "Let your hand be with me." (I Chron. 4:10) When people of the Old Testament asked God for His hand to be with them, they were invoking God’s visible demonstration of His blessings and assurance. Ask the Lord to visibly display His blessings on your personal life, relationships and ministries.

6. The Holy Spirit used Jabez by urging him to go beyond what was normal. Samuel wrote, "Jabez cried out, "Enlarge MY territory!" ( I Chron. 4:10) Many people would assume that Jabez would merely ask for God’s blessings on his present responsibilities, but this man of God asked God to go beyond what was normal. Trust the Lord to do a new thing in your personal life, relationships and ministries so that others will give greater glory to the God who goes beyond human expectations.

7. The Holy Spirit used Jabez by leading him to ask God to be kept from all kinds of harm. Samuel wrote, Jabez cried, "Keep me from harm." (I Chron. 4:10) Ask the Lord to deliver you from physical, spiritual, social, mental, emotional, cultural, political, financial, demonic, and all kinds of personal harm.

8. The Holy Spirit used Jabez by interceding for Him. Samuel wrote, "God granted his request." (I Chron. 4:10) Trust the Lord to intercede for you in all kinds of ways that you may not be able to articulate.

9. The Holy Spirit used Jabez at a time when many in Israel did not walk with God. Samuel recorded over 500 names from I Chronicles chapter one to nine, but he stops to highlight Jabez’s faith, prayer and accomplishments as a man who saw great fruit in a time of spiritual dryness. Ask the Lord to use your faith and prayers as a testimony to the fact that you are not dependent on the spiritual climate around you.

10. The Holy Spirit can use you as He did Jabez if you are willing to increase your faith and courage. Jesus said, "Anyone who steadfastly believes in Me, he will himself be able to do the things that I do; and he will do even greater things than these, because I go to the Father." (John 14:12) Ask the Lord to increase the quality and the quantity of your faith so that you can do greater things in your personal life, your relationships and in your ministries.

11. The Holy Spirit can greatly use you if you are willing to endure misunderstanding as Jabez did. It is clear that Jabez had to endure a great deal of criticism, fault finding and disparaging remarks from his brothers as he grew in faith. Ask the Lord to help you to avoid taking disparaging remarks personally.

12. The Holy Spirit can use you if you are bold enough to ask God’s hand of blessings to be with you at all times. The trouble with many of us is we are only interested in having God’s hand on us when we are facing a problem. However, Jabez was willing to ask for God’s hand of blessings and presence to be with him in the good times and in the bad times - regardless of all that it involved. Ask the Lord to place His hand of blessing on all parts of your personal life, relationships and ministries - regardless of the changes you will have to make to your lifestyle.

13. The Holy Spirit can use you if you are willing to trust God to be protected from both internal and external evils. Jabez knew that his own selfish desires would mean that God would have to humble him to teach him more about His sovereign will - as He did to Job. Ask God to deliver you from temptation and keep you from all sorts of internal and external evils.