Summary: How do I not give in to physical desires? How do I discipline myself? What is "dying" to fleshly desires?

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How to keep the body from winning over the heart…

Ever felt like you wanted to do right, but your physical desires were so overpowering, it was hard or impossible?

 Diet vs. eat

 Getting up vs. sleep

 Obedience vs. sin

 Purity vs. immorality

 Clean mind vs. lust

 Drugs vs clean

 Alcohol vs sobriety

Song in the 70s disco era - “my body keeps changing my mind/changing my heart”

Bottom line: If you allow fleshly hunger to dominate your life, it will crowd out and kill spiritual hunger.

First, I want to make sure that you understand I’m not down on the body – like somehow sin lives in your physical self.

Gnostic controversy

We don’t believe the body is __evil____.

In the Scripture, these two words are often used when talking about the

Flesh (sarkos) vs. body (soma)

From the Fall From Creation

Sinful nature Physical body

Dangerous Neutral

Wants to be master Wants to be pampered

Commanded to starve it Commanded to care for it

Hate it Be suspicious of it

Must be put to death Must be controlled

Kill it Discipline it

How to keep from being controlled by fleshly desires:

1. Discipline your body.

1 Corinthians 9:26 Therefore I do not run like a man running aimlessly; I do not fight like a man beating the air.

27 No, I beat my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize.

The body is a good servant, but a terrible master.

Ways to discipline your body:

 Go crazy on ____fighting your weak areas._____.

Matthew 18:8 If your hand or your foot causes you to sin cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life maimed or crippled than to have two hands or two feet and be thrown into eternal fire.

9 And if your eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into the fire of hell.

Let’s get this out of the way: You have weak areas. You have areas that you’re vulnerable to temptation and sin. I know that’s shocking… I know you were unaware… but you do. What are you going to do about it?

Jesus isn’t literally commanding us to slice and dice our bodies. (Notice he says “if” your body causes you a problem…) However, he’s making a point in a very shocking and memorable way:

It is better to hurt the body than to lose your soul. If it’s soul vs. body in any area of your life, make SURE the soul wins. You would literally be BETTER OFF without an eye than in hell.

If something is continually causing you to sin, some area in which your body is weak and soft, and you can’t discipline yourself, it’s better to get rid of the possibility entirely.

Here’s why Jesus had to make that shocking assertion – most people don’t want to conquer it LIKE THAT. The hunger for physical things (like having eyes and hands) overcomes the hunger for spiritual things (like going to heaven, knowing God).

Not only will you not cut off your hand, tear out your eye, but you won’t put a filter on your computer, get accountability apps on your phone, tell someone, delete that person’s phone #, embarrass yourself by admitting a struggle…

Then you’re not really serious about defeating it yet.

“You have the mind, but you do not have the body. So you must make the body.” - Teddy Roosevelt’s father

IS your weakness in your eyes? Always find yourself looking with lust? What do you need to do to discipline yourself?

Is weakness in your mind?

IN your desire for sleep?

What weak areas cause your body to be closer to surrendering to the desires of the “flesh?”

Go crazy and beat it.

 Fasting

Joel 2:12 'Even now,' declares the LORD, 'return to me with all your heart, with fasting and weeping and mourning.'

13 Rend your heart and not your garments. Return to the LORD your God, for he is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love, and he relents from sending calamity.

14 Who knows? He may turn and have pity and leave behind a blessing-- grain offerings and drink offerings for the LORD your God.

Fasting isn’t just a way to get things from God, it’s a way to help your heart hunger return to God.

Great way to weaken the desires of the flesh, strengthen the hunger of the spirit. The more you destroy & deny fleshly hunger, the more spiritual hunger increases.

You never know what the phrase “taste and see that the Lord is good” means until you have fasted and seen Him answer prayer.

Matthew 6:16 "When you fast, do not look somber as the hypocrites do, for they disfigure their faces to show men they are fasting. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full.

17 But when you fast, put oil on your head and wash your face,

18 so that it will not be obvious to men that you are fasting, but only to your Father, who is unseen; and your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.

IN other words, don’t use your spiritual fasting to feed fleshly, sinful nature hungers.

“Ooh, if I fast, I will look gooooooood.”

2. Put to death the “flesh.”

Note: To avoid confusion, the NIV often translates “flesh” as “sinful nature.”

Romans 8:8 Those controlled by the sinful nature cannot please God.

9 You, however, are controlled not by the sinful nature but by the Spirit, if the Spirit of God lives in you…

Ro 8:12 Therefore, brothers, we have an obligation-- but it is not to the sinful nature, to live according to it.

13 For if you live according to the sinful nature, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the misdeeds of the body, you will live,

Romans 13:14 Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature.

“God will never tell you to do something that gratifies the flesh.” – Charles Stanley

Don’t even think about how to fulfill the desires of the sinful nature. NAS translation says “make no provision” for the sinful nature, to fulfill its desires.

Don’t provide for the sinful nature. Kill it, starve it. Don’t sit and think about it, don’t provide a time slot for it, don’t provide a weekend for it, don’t provide transportation for it, don’t provide money for it.

Starve it, kill it.

Colossians 3:5 Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry.

6 Because of these, the wrath of God is coming.

Have you died to your fleshly desires?

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How to keep the body from winning over the heart…

Bottom line: If you allow ___________________ hunger to dominate your life, it will crowd out and kill _______________________ hunger.

We don’t believe the body is _________________.

Two related words in the Bible, different emphasis:

Flesh (sarkos) vs. body (soma)

From the Fall From Creation

Sinful nature Physical body

Dangerous Neutral

Wants to be master Wants to be pampered

Commanded to starve it Commanded to care for it

Hate it Be suspicious of it

Must be put to death Must be controlled

Kill it Discipline it

How to keep from being controlled by fleshly desires:

1. ____________________________ your body.

1 Corinthians 9:26 Therefore I do not run like a man running aimlessly; I do not fight like a man beating the air.

27 No, I beat my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize.

The body is a good ___________________, but a terrible ______________.

Ways to discipline your body:

 Go crazy on _____________________________________.

Matthew 18:8 If your hand or your foot causes you to sin cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life maimed or crippled than to have two hands or two feet and be thrown into eternal fire.

9 And if your eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into the fire of hell.

Jesus is making the point: It is better to ____________________________ than to __________________________________. If it’s ____________________________ in any area of your life, make SURE the soul wins.

“You have the mind, but you do not have the body. So you must make the body.” - Teddy Roosevelt’s father

What weak areas cause your body to be closer to surrendering to the desires of the “flesh?”

 _________________________

Joel 2:12 'Even now,' declares the LORD, 'return to me with all your heart, with fasting and weeping and mourning.'

13 Rend your heart and not your garments. Return to the LORD your God, for he is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love, and he relents from sending calamity.

14 Who knows? He may turn and have pity and leave behind a blessing-- grain offerings and drink offerings for the LORD your God.

Fasting isn’t just a way to get things from God, it’s a way to _____________ ________________________________________. The more you destroy & deny fleshly hunger, the more spiritual hunger ______________________.

Matthew 6:16 "When you fast, do not look somber as the hypocrites do, for they disfigure their faces to show men they are fasting. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full.

17 But when you fast, put oil on your head and wash your face,

18 so that it will not be obvious to men that you are fasting, but only to your Father, who is unseen; and your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.

2. Put to ____________________ the “____________.”

Note: To avoid confusion, the NIV often translates “flesh” as “sinful nature.”

Romans 8:8 Those controlled by the sinful nature cannot please God.

9 You, however, are controlled not by the sinful nature but by the Spirit, if the Spirit of God lives in you…

Ro 8:12 Therefore, brothers, we have an obligation-- but it is not to the sinful nature, to live according to it.

13 For if you live according to the sinful nature, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the misdeeds of the body, you will live,

Romans 13:14 Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature.

“God will never tell you to do something that gratifies the flesh.” – Charles Stanley

Don’t __________________________________ the sinful nature. Kill it, starve it. Don’t sit and think about it, don’t provide a time slot for it, don’t provide a weekend for it, don’t provide transportation for it, don’t provide money for it.

Colossians 3:5 Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry.

6 Because of these, the wrath of God is coming.

Have you ________________ to your fleshly desires?