Summary: To show the proof in the bible why adam was cursed in his work, it's because he listened to his wife but never listened to GOD.

I. EXORDIUM:

To whom are you listening, your wife or GOD?

Both I and my wife are listening to GOD.

II. AUDIENCE PROFILE:

Believers/unbelievers

III. OBJECTIVES:

To show the proof in the bible why adam was cursed in his work, it's because he listened to his wife but never listened to GOD.

IV. TEXT:

Genesis 3:17 (Amplified Bible)

And to Adam He said, Because you have listened and given heed to the voice of your wife and have eaten of the tree of which I commanded you, saying, You shall not eat of it, the ground is under a curse because of you; in sorrow and toil shall you eat [of the fruits] of it all the days of your life.

V. THESIS:

Praise, worship, glorify, adore, bless, honor, acknowledge and thank You very much LORD JESUS for we listen only to You and we will receive Your goodness and prosperity in this life.

Matthew 15:10 (Amplified Bible)

And Jesus called the people to Him and said to them, Listen and grasp and comprehend this:

Jeremiah 23:22 (Amplified Bible)

But if they had stood in My council, then they would have caused My people to hear My words, then they would have turned them [My people] from their evil way and from the evil of their doings. \

Jeremiah 22:21 (Amplified Bible)

I spoke to you in your [times of] prosperity, but you said, I will not listen! This has been your attitude from your youth; you have not obeyed My voice.

VI. TITLE:

Cursed is the ground for adams sake

VII. EXPLICATION:

A. Author: Moses

B. Date written: 1450 - 1410 B.C.

C. Purpose: Book of Origins

D. To whom written: People of Israel

E. Main theme: Man's sin and initial steps for his redemption initiated by GOD.

F. Keyword: Beginning

G. Key verse: First Messianic Promise -

Genesis 3:15 (Amplified Bible)

And I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and her Offspring; He will bruise and tread your head underfoot, and you will lie in wait and bruise His heel.

VIII. MAIN BODY:

Genesis 3:17 (Amplified Bible)

And to Adam He said, Because you have listened and given heed to the voice of your wife and have eaten of the tree of which I commanded you, saying, You shall not eat of it, the ground is under a curse because of you; in sorrow and toil shall you eat [of the fruits] of it all the days of your life.

Genesis 3:17 (New King James Version)

Then to Adam He said, "Because you have heeded the voice of your wife, and have eaten from the tree of which I commanded you, saying, 'You shall not eat of it': "Cursed is the ground for your sake; In toil you shall eat of it All the days of your life.

A. GOD said, "Because you have listened to your wife to eat the fruit of the tree that is forbidden to be eaten"

"And to Adam He said, Because you have listened and given heed to the voice of your wife and have eaten of the tree of which I commanded you, saying, You shall not eat of it,"

Hearkened, listened or "shama" in Hebrew language meaning, "to hear intelligently, with implication of attention, obedience, consent, consider, diligently, discern, give ear, understand, regard, report"

Because adam decided not to intervene listening to her wife, rather than GOD. Now wives nowadays will get angry with you if you will not listen to them. That's why the man has to listen to GOD and rely the message of GOD to his wife and both will listen to GOD. Of course GOD will talk to men, if men are devoted and committed to their worship time with GOD. Men or husbands therefore are the spiritual leaders as well in their household. A silent husband is a failure and loser husband. He must always be talking the oracles and decisions of GOD to share to his wife. It's not the other way around. The devil tries to destro the family by reversing it, nowadays women talk a lot in the household and the family is destroyed, the husband leaves instead for another "silent" woman.

Proverbs 21:9 (Amplified Bible)

It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop [on the flat oriental roof, exposed to all kinds of weather] than in a house shared with a nagging, quarrelsome, and faultfinding woman.

Judges 16:16 (Amplified Bible)

And when she pressed him day after day with her words and urged him, he was vexed to death.

It will always be the wife who will say to her husband to touch what belongs to GOD. In our days, this is our tithes and offering, don't listen to your wife if he tells you this because tithes and offerings symbolizes our submission to GOD, and not to money, we declare with this actions of faith that GOD is our Liberal Supplier and not money. GOD then multiplies the purchasing power of the money that we have.

Malachi 3:10 (Amplified Bible)

Bring all the tithes (the whole tenth of your income) into the storehouse, that there may be food in My house, and prove Me now by it, says the Lord of hosts, if I will not open the windows of heaven for you and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it.

GOD designed the home and family today for man to be the speaker and leader both physical and spiritual.

Jeremiah 7:23-24 (Amplified Bible)

But this thing I did command them: Listen to and obey My voice, and I will be your God and you will be My people; and walk in the whole way that I command you, that it may be well with you.

But they would not listen to and obey Me or bend their ear [to Me], but followed the counsels and the stubborn promptings of their own evil hearts and minds, and they turned their backs and went in reverse instead of forward.

Ephesians 5:21 (Amplified Bible)

Be subject to one another out of reverence for Christ (the Messiah, the Anointed One).

ILLUSTRATION: We see this wicked and perverse generation always reversing what GOD has said. Now same sex marriage are promoted and embraced. The woman rans the home because the man was in another country working. How pitiful for us to degrade ourselves differently from what GOD has commanded?

B. The ground is under a curse for adam's sake, in toil and sorrow you will eat from it all the days of your life.

"the ground is under a curse because of you; in sorrow and toil shall you eat [of the fruits] of it all the days of your life."

Isaiah 24:5-6 (Amplified Bible)

The land and the earth also are defiled by their inhabitants, because they have transgressed the laws, disregarded the statutes, and broken the everlasting covenant.

Therefore a curse devours the land and the earth, and they who dwell in it suffer the punishment of their guilt. Therefore the inhabitants of the land and the earth are scorched and parched [under the curse of God’s wrath], and few people are left.

Romans 8:20-22 (Amplified Bible)

For the creation (nature) was subjected to frailty (to futility, condemned to frustration), not because of some intentional fault on its part, but by the will of Him Who so subjected it—[yet] with the hope

That nature (creation) itself will be set free from its bondage to decay and corruption [and gain an entrance] into the glorious freedom of God’s children.

We know that the whole creation [of irrational creatures] has been moaning together in the pains of labor until now.

Ecclesiastes 2:22-23 (Amplified Bible)

For what has a man left from all his labor and from the striving and vexation of his heart in which he has toiled under the sun?

For all his days are but pain and sorrow, and his work is a vexation and grief; his mind takes no rest even at night. This is also vanity (emptiness, falsity, and futility)!

Because adam is the representative of evern man, whoever was assigned to stand as adam will fail miserably without GOD, because we can see from the scriptures or (not see anything or any record at all) that adam thanked the LORD for creating him. Sadly but it's true that adam missed the very basic of life, that is having gratitude in his heart for something that he can't do for himself. Or even acknowledging GOD in the most little own way. No never, not a word.

adam was not a spiritual man, indeed, for He never saw GOD as his Helper.

Genesis 2:18-20 (Amplified Bible)

Now the Lord God said, It is not good (sufficient, satisfactory) that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper meet (suitable, adapted, complementary) for him.

And out of the ground the Lord God formed every [wild] beast and living creature of the field and every bird of the air and brought them to Adam to see what he would call them; and whatever Adam called every living creature, that was its name.

And Adam gave names to all the livestock and to the birds of the air and to every [wild] beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found a helper meet (suitable, adapted, complementary) for him.

Unlike King David, who was a spiritual man, saw GOD as his Helper.

Psalms 54:4 (Amplified Bible)

Behold, God is my helper and ally; the Lord is my upholder and is with them who uphold my life.

Actually adam never needed a wife, for he had already a Husband but he never saw GOD like that. He was blind in all the blessings he had received from GOD.

Isaiah 54:5 (Amplified Bible)

For your Maker is your Husband—the Lord of hosts is His name—and the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer; the God of the whole earth He is called.

That's why GOD is so loving and gracious to give adam a helpmate in the form of a woman.

Genesis 2:23-25 (Amplified Bible)

Then Adam said, This [creature] is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of a man.

Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and shall become united and cleave to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

And the man and his wife were both naked and were not embarrassed or ashamed in each other’s presence.

We can see adam being conscious of his wife but not of the LORD GOD. How pitiful! There's no record in the bible that adam turned to GOD and You are my Creator and i am your creature subjected to you.

Be conscious of the LORD GOD, not of everyone else, and both husbands and wives be conscious of the LORD GOD and only trust, adhere, worship, adore, hope, and put their confidence only in the LORD GOD not to each other.

Psalms 97:11 (Amplified Bible)

Light is sown for the [uncompromisingly] righteous and strewn along their pathway, and joy for the upright in heart [the irrepressible joy which comes from consciousness of His favor and protection].

Psalms 25:2 (Amplified Bible)

O my God, I trust, lean on, rely on, and am confident in You. Let me not be put to shame or [my hope in You] be disappointed; let not my enemies triumph over me.

Jude 1:5 (Amplified Bible)

Now I want to remind you, though you were fully informed once for all, that though the Lord [at one time] delivered a people out of the land of Egypt, He subsequently destroyed those [of them] who did not believe [who refused to adhere to, trust in, and rely upon Him].

IX. CONCLUSION:

Praise, worship, glorify, adore, bless, honor, acknowledge and thank You very much LORD JESUS for we listen only to You and we will receive Your goodness and prosperity in this life.