Summary: The Pastor is many things CEO, CFO, Shepherd, Theologian ect but he is a Family Man. He must look at his family as a criterial part of his ministry and protect and serve that family unit

Sermon Pastor as the Family Man Ephesians 5:18 – 6:4 Titus 1 1 Timothy 3

I. Pastor as a Family Man will Love His Wife

a. Must stop male bashing

b. Men need to be different

i. 40% of children are separated from Day

c. Love Sacrificial

i. Command

ii. Love in the Bible is a Choice

iii. John Piper Quote of Love

"Love is the overflow of joy in God! It is not duty for duty's sake, or right for right's sake. It is not a resolute abandoning of one's own good with a view solely to the good of the other person. It is first a deeply satisfying experience of the fullness of God's grace, and then a doubly satisfying experience of sharing that grace with another person."

- John Piper

1. Love your wife carry the trash. Wash cloths/Put the toilet seat down

d. Sanctify Love

i. Disciple you wife and Kids

e. Sensitive Love v28

i. Martial Rader system

ii. Be a student of your mate

f. Satisfy Love

i. Nothing means more than

g. Specific Love v33

II. Pastor as a Family Man will Train up His Children v1-4

a. Vv1-3 Educate them

b. Obey

c. V4 No angry