Summary: To lead the people to understand how to show forgiveness to those who have hurt us by doing good to them without expecting anything in return.

Unit 11 – Hard Times

Lesson 32 – Joseph’s Dreams Come True – Genesis 42

Preparation for the Teacher

1. Aim: To lead the people to understand how to show forgiveness to those who have hurt us by doing good to them without expecting anything in return.

2. Explanation of the Aim: God fulfills Joseph’s dream that his brothers will come to Egypt and bow down to him. Instead of using this as an opportunity to exact vengeance Joseph uses the opportunity to do good to all of Israel and save many lives during a terrible famine. It takes a great person of God to say what Joseph said to his brothers, “Don’t be afraid. Am I in the place of God? You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.” (Gen. 50:19,20) Let us trust the Lord to help us show our forgiveness to others by seeking to do them good as Christ shows grace to us.

3. The Bible Story: The Lord always has a way of using crisis for our good. In our lesson we see how the Sovereign God requires the guilty ten brothers of Joseph to humble themselves and come to Egypt seeking to purchase maize. When people are willing to humble themselves and seek answers from God, He is always able to help them find solutions. Joseph proves to be a man of God by using the entire encounter with his brothers to allow God to minister grace, service and blessings to those who are need. Let us always do good to all people, especially to those who are of the household of the faith, as we have opportunity. There may soon come a time when we will also be in want.

4. Prepare to Teach: In the INTRODUCTION we want to help the people put themselves in the place of Joseph when his brothers come begging for grain. Ask the people how they would tend to treat people who have betrayed them? What do some of the people think that Joseph must have thought when he saw his brothers for the first time in twenty years? What are some of the reasons that we are to show forgiveness to those who have wronged us? THE BIBLE STORY tells us how Joseph started out speaking harshly to his brothers. He actually charged them with evil schemes against the Egyptian government. Joseph tried to bring his brothers to a point of repentance because he certainly did not want to take revenge into his own hands. Eventually, Joseph’s demonstration of forgiveness is a foreshadowing to how Christ prayed on the cross, “Father, forgive them for they do not know what they are doing.” The MEANING FOR OUR LIVES gives the people an opportunity to make applications to their own lives and activities. Ask the people to explain how they are going to forgive others as God has forgiven them. Let the people pray a prayer that helps them plan to show kindness to those who have offended them. Allow the people to explain how they are going to apply the verse from Romans 12:19,20 that says, “Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God’s wrath…On the contrary: If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.”

CLASS TIME (Begin With Prayer)

Introduction

Help the people put themselves in the place of Joseph when his brothers come begging for grain. Ask the people how they would tend to treat people who have betrayed them? What do some of the people think that Joseph must have thought when he saw his brothers for the first time in twenty years? What are some of the reasons that we are to show forgiveness to those who have wronged us? Ask the people why some people have a hard time loving their enemies as Jesus did? What are some of the hindrances to forgiving others as Jesus forgives us?

The Bible Story

When Joseph brothers come to Egypt looking for grain, they are surprised to find themselves thrown in jail for three days. God often has to allow certain people to be humbled before they can learn the lessons they need to acquire. Eventually, God redeems, delivers and restores those humble people who are willing to put their faith in Him. Similarly, Joseph releases his brothers from prison and provides them with enough grain to save the lives of their people in their homeland.

Joseph demands that the brothers leave a hostage with him while they fetch Benjamin, their younger brother. Note that Joseph expresses his fear of God before his brothers when he says, “You will be tested to see if you are spies. Send one of your number to get your brother; the rest of you will be kept in prison, so that your words may be tested to see if you are telling the truth… Then the brothers said, “Surely we are being punished because of our brother. We saw how distressed he was when he pleaded with us for his life, but we would not listen; that’s why this distress has come upon us.” (Gen. 42:15-21) Be sure that your sin will find you out. Joseph’s plan to bring his brothers to a point of repentance works perfectly. Allow the Spirit of God to produce conviction of sin in the lives of some people who need to repent before the Lord and do right.

Joseph shows his tenderness at this point by retiring into his inner room to weep. People of tender heart often have a hard time covering up their feelings. Allow the Lord to use whatever temperament He has given you to help express Christ like love, concern and service for others. Jesus also had such tender love for people that the Bible tells us that Jesus wept, when he saw that Lazarus had died and his sisters grieved. Learn to be warm, affectionate and compassionate toward people who are in genuine need.

Joseph allowed all of the brothers to return to their homeland with plenty of maize along with their money stuffed in their bags. The heavenly Father also gives out of his rich supply to us without making us pay anything for all of His precious gifts. Let us learn to remember the powerful words of the Lord Jesus who said, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.”

Notice that Joseph jailed Simeon because he saw that he was the only one of the ten brothers who had yet to show remorse for their sin. There are times when we have to dispense greater chastisement on some who stubbornly hold on to their prideful refusal to humble themselves under the mighty hand of God’s authorities.

It is instructive to learn that when the brothers learned they still had their money in their sacks they became afraid. “Their hearts sank and they turned to each other trembling and said, “What is this that God has done to us?” Guilty consciences are apt to misinterpret what God is trying to do in one’s life. When a person is not in close fellowship with the Lord they are misunderstand the good gracious gifts they are given. They concluded that the Egyptians had done this to pick a quarrel with them. To the impure of heart everything appears to be suspicious and malicious. Only to the pure are all things pure. Ask the Lord to help you develop a pure and good conscience so you are not apt to misinterpret what God is trying to do in and through your life.

The chapter closes by showing us how Jacob refuses to allow Benjamin to return with them to Egypt. Even after twenty years the brothers are still look at with suspicion by their Father Jacob. Evil deeds tend to have long standing consequences in our relationships. Jacob blames the brothers when he shouts, “You have deprived me of my people. Joseph is no more and Simeon is no more and now you want to take Benjamin. Everything is against me!” (Gen. 42:36) The sins of one family member tend to resound to all the members. People often confuse themselves when they are looking at others rather than God for the answers to their problems. Only then are we able to say with confidence, “I know that God works all things together for good to those who love Him and are called according to His purposes.” (Rom. 8:28)

Memory Verse: And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose. (Romans 8:28)

Or: Forgive us our trespasses as we have forgiven those who trespass against us.” (Matt. 6:12)

The Meaning For Our Lives

Give the people an opportunity to make applications to their own lives and activities. Ask the people to explain how they are going to forgive others as God has forgiven them. Let the people pray a prayer that helps them plan to show kindness to those who have offended them. Allow the people to explain how they are going to apply the verse from Romans 12:19,20 that says, “Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God’s wrath…On the contrary: If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.”

Response:

Song: Thank you, thank you Lord. Thank you for everything you have done.

Prayer: Ask the Lord to help you to pray and believe that He can work all things together for good with those who love Him and fit into His plans.

At Home: Ask your parents how they are able to show forgiveness to others.