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I’m a student of preaching and a sort of morbid fan of politics. One of the frustrating observations I have across both of those mediums is the allergic reaction people have to the words “I don’t know.”

There is something explicitly or implicitly understood that public personalities need to have an authoritative position on everything. I don’t understand this. Since I’m always learning and growing, I’m pretty sure I’m the smartest today I’ve ever been (which is not saying much). But part of the process of learning and growing is becoming painfully aware of how much you don’t know. For my part, I am increasingly comfortable with saying “I don’t know” when I don’t know the answer to a thing.

I do not mean this in some sort of postmodern hazy way, like nobody can really know what to think about anything because there is no authority beyond my own account of my own story. There are plenty of things I feel that I know, plenty of things I think I can state with authority. But I don’t think you should trust anybody who speaks authoritatively about everything.

Some variation of the question of why God heals some and doesn’t heal others/why God answers this prayer this way and doesn’t answer others comes up all the time. I believe that anything good God does to interrupt the course of history with His good future is a marker of what’s to come when creation is restored. But why this comes for some and not for others? I DON’T KNOW.

I know that the full revelation of God is in the person of Jesus Christ, that what I see and hear of Him is the defining answer to the question of what God is like. But when I get to a strange text in the Old Testament that doesn’t correspond easily with my assumptions, I do not attempt to blunt the sharp edges of a narrative to fit my framework. I can say, “That text is weird to me. I’m not sure exactly what that means.”

Evangelical leaders get into interviews where they are treated like experts, and they are pitched a question (ahem, not naming any names) about whether or not this candidate or that candidate is a proper Christian. What an easy, obvious opportunity to say “I don’t know”—as if there is anything we can know with authority. It’s that we are not God and thus not in charge of who’s in and who’s out. But believing their own press, believing themselves to be “authorities,” they proceed to answer questions that cannot and should not be answered.

Tragedy strikes. Disaster befalls us. A child or a mother or a father dies unexpectedly. A bleak diagnosis is given. It seems it is time to speak of the unspeakable. In one of the most wrenching scenes in Scripture, Jesus’ friend Lazarus has died, and Jesus shows up four days later. All eyes are on the prophet-sage-master teacher, the wisest of the wise, awaiting a word that will heal, a word that will explain, a word that will comfort. If there is anything one could rightly expect from the man who delivered the Sermon on the Mount, it would be the gift of words.

And yet, with the weight of expectation towering over him, those closest to Lazarus are given the gift of the wordlessness of God. The answer they were given is the contorted face of God, the hot tears of Jesus. There was nothing to be said. It was a time for grief, not for answers.

Yet, why is it that as leaders we never seem to recognize the moment when there are no words to be said, no comfort to be offered, no solutions to be given? Sometimes the sacred thing, the wise thing, the compassionate thing, the best thing, the anointed thing—is to shut up. And if there is an answer that is needed, let it be in your tears or in your presence; let it be in the witness of a man or woman who has the courage and the wisdom to say “I don’t know.” Some questions are not opportunities; they are temptations—temptations to play God, temptations to play the expert, temptations to play doctor, temptations to build the platform or the reputation. And if there is anything that would scare me, it would be to utter words in a scenario where God Himself would not dare offer them.

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Gary Bellis

commented on May 15, 2015

Great word Jonathan!

Floyd Cryer

commented on May 15, 2015

Great Article Jonathan. What wise words that you have written. They really have inspired me and stirred my soul. Thank You.

Paul Wise

commented on May 15, 2015

Very good . Thank you.

Andrew Shields

commented on May 15, 2015

I like that you brought up grief, and funerals as a good time to be silent, and mourn. That is wise, and a great reminder to us preachers who are often asked to speak when even we wish we could sit silently. (Rev. Andrew Shields),

Tom Lambert

commented on May 15, 2015

Agree. Absolutely outstanding insights, comparisons and applications. As I read it I was wondering why God did not give me your literary gift? I had to admit "I just don't know!" thanks

Suresh Manoharan

commented on May 16, 2015

Honesty oozes out of this article...thanks Bro.Jonanthan...

Lawrence Webb

commented on May 16, 2015

This is a valuable lesson. In a college psych class, our professor helped me begin to see I really did not have to answer every question. Out in real life, as bumps came along -- most notably the death of one of our premature twin sons -- I became more and more willing to say, "I don't know." Thank you for this reminder that God does know, and I can leave some things to Him.

Gilbert Pkemoi

commented on May 20, 2015

Yes Jonathan. i don't know is the best answer. He knows better than all of us.

Ajayi Segun

commented on Apr 24, 2019

Yes sir, the word of God is spirit and true, God is the only one that is parfect and knows all. God is not man and man is not God. God bless you.

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