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Learning To Give Thanks When Suffering ...
Contributed by Sermon Central on Oct 26, 2009 (message contributor)
Learning to Give Thanks When Suffering Loss--Bouquet of Rose Thorns
You must die to live; take up your cross daily in order to follow Christ; give in order to receive; all those who live godly in Christ Jesus will suffer persecution. The bitter and the sweet are realities when you put your faith in Christ.
Sandra’s life had been easy, like a spring breeze. She married a man she loved, they lived in a nice home, and then they were going to have a son. But in the 4th month of her pregnancy, a car accident stole her peace. During the following Thanksgiving week she would have delivered a son, but now her arms and heart were empty. She barely made it to the florists to pick up a Thanksgiving flower arrangement for her church.
Thanksgiving? Thankful for what? She wondered. For a careless driver whose truck was hardly scratched when he rear-ended her? For an airbag that saved her life but took the life of her child?
"Good afternoon, can I help you?" The shop clerk startled her.
"I ... I need an arrangement," stammered Sandra.
"For Thanksgiving? Do you want beautiful, or would you like what I call the Thanksgiving
"Special?" asked the shop clerk.
"What do you mean?" Sandra asked.
"I’m convinced flowers tell stories," she continued. "Are you looking for something that conveys ’gratitude’ this Thanksgiving?"
"Not exactly!" Sandra blurted out. "In the last five months, everything that could go wrong has gone wrong."
The shop clerk said, "I have the perfect arrangement for you."She disappeared into the back and came back out with a large bouquet of roses, only these roses had all of the flowers cut off, leaving only the thorny stems.
"What kind of flower arrangement is that? Do you expect me to pay for this?" Sandra said.
"Not unless you decide you want to. But first hear me out. Several years ago I lost my husband, and for the first time in my life, I spent the holidays alone. I had no children, no husband, no family nearby, and too great a debt to allow any travel."
"So what did you do?" asked Sandra.
"I learned to be thankful for thorns," answered the clerk quietly. "I’ve always thanked God for good things in life and never asked Him why those good things happened to me. But when bad stuff hit, boy did I ever ask! It took time for me to learn that dark times are part of God’s plan for my life. My experience has shown me that thorns make roses more precious. Remember, it was a crown of thorns that Jesus wore so we might know His love."
Tears rolled down Sandra’s cheeks. For the first time since the accident, she loosened her grip on resentment. "I’ll take those twelve long-stemmed thorns, please. What do I owe you?"
"Nothing but a promise to allow God to heal your heart. The first year’s arrangement is always on me." When Sandra got home she read the card:
"My God, I have never thanked You for my thorns. I have thanked You a thousand times for my roses, but never once for my thorns. Teach me the glory of the cross I bear; teach me the value of my thorns. Show me that I have climbed closer to You along the path of pain. Show me that, through my tears, the colors of Your rainbow shine much more brilliant."
No pain, no palm; no thorns, no throne; no gall, no glory; no cross, no crown.- William Penn
From a sermon by David Scudder, Seeing Victory in Disaster, 10/25/2009
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