The most recent PCA magazine, ByFaith, reported on Lynn Wheeler’s response to being made a quadriplegic in a car wreck. Rather than pout or withdraw, “Lynn continues to attend church every Sunday, though it requires getting up at 5 am to begin the preparations to leave the house. [And] She has taught the catechism to Pioneer Kids every Sunday night this year….” Hating your own life feels like refusing to feel sorry for yourself because of your circumstances.