Elton Trueblood: "No matter how much a man may be concerned with his work in the world, he should not care about it as much as he cares for his family. This is because we have, in our families, a bigger stake than most of us can ever have in our employment. We can change business associates ... we can leave a poor job ... but we cannot change sons. If we lose the struggle in our occupational interests, we can try again, but if we lose with our children our loss is final."