Summary: Part 3 of 10 in a series dedicated to debunking commonly held myths that we think are in the Bible but really aren't, myths that can and often do have devastating effects on our faith.

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INTRODUCTION: It can be said with little or no argument that a parent’s primary concern is that their kids turn out ok; as a parent I can attest to that fact. Nothing else in the world worries us more. If we’re honest with ourselves most of us are also scared to death that we’ll somehow mess our kids up and they won’t become upstanding and productive members of society, and as Christians it goes one step further, we’re worried that our children won’t grow up to be faithful, church-going, God honoring adults.

BACKGROUND: This deep-seated fear causes us to scour the pages of scripture looking for some reassurance that if we provide a proper upbringing for our children, then they’ll not only turn out ok but they’ll also become committed followers of Jesus… and then the solution seemingly presents itself – (Proverbs 22:6) As parents we often cling to this verse as God’s promise to us that if we raise our kids right, everything will turn out OK, the only problem with this whole scenario is that this verse isn’t what we think it is, and doesn’t say what we think it says, and thus we have yet another myth that is wreaking havoc upon the people of God, the idea that a Godly home guarantees Godly kids!


• At the very foundation of this myth is the confusion about what this passage of scripture is

• It’s a proverb, it’s not a promise, and there is a difference

• Promise – absolute truth concerning something that will be done, especially true when related to God (Hebrews 6:18)

• Proverb – general observation about life, the best route to the desired end, but no guarantees are given – let’s take a closer look at this verse…

• What we think it says – If we raise a child correctly, even if they stray, they’ll eventually come back to God

• What it actually says – If we raise a child according to God’s word(specifically the Torah), and their bent (personality) they won’t turn away in the first place

• If a child is artistic, don’t force sports, if their mechanically inclined don’t force academics etc.

• Try as we may, wish as we might, we cannot force this verse to say anything about the return of a wayward child, even the Parable of the Prodigal Son, (Luke 15) only states the fact of the sons return, there was never any guarantee, either stated or implied that it would happen

• Even in the best of circumstances, children do rebel, they do break our hearts, and they do, because of personal responsibility face the consequences of their actions – case in point – Adam and Eve

• God is the “perfect” parent, the garden was the “perfect” environment (no sin) and they still made bad decisions, and suffered the consequences, and we suffer still! Not their sin, but death!


• This myth isn’t just untrue, it isn’t just wishful thinking, it’s also spiritually dangerous! Why?

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