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Summary: Marriage is a gift from God and He has given us three steps towards building our lives together. Last week we began to look at the first two steps - leaving and cleaving - in this message we consider the third step - weaving our lives together in a patte

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A Life In One Direction - Genesis 2:24 - April 29, 2012

Series: After The Honeymoon - #3

This morning we are continuing our series on marriage, entitled, “After the Honeymoon.” You’ll remember that last week we began to look at Genesis 2:24 where we read these words: “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they become one flesh.” And what we learned first of all is that marriage is a response to God. Scripture says, “For this reason,” - that’s a response to God - marriage is a response to God’s goodness in bringing a man and a woman together. So marriage is both a gift from God, and is itself, God ordained. It’s His plan for joining the lives of two people together.

And then when we began to unpack that verse further, we started to see that not only is marriage God’s intention for uniting two people together, but that God also has a basic, three step plan, that’s meant to help your marriage get started on the right foundation and become everything that He has desired and planned for marriage to be. And if we don’t get these steps right, our marriages are going to fall short of what they could be, and of what we ourselves, would really desire for them to be.

First there is to be a leaving. This is a forsaking of the loyalties that bind us to our parents but not a forsaking of our parents themselves. God’s desire is not that we turn our backs on mom and dad when we get married, but rather that our allegiance shifts from the family we grew up in, to the family that we are now building with our spouse. And a number of you came up to me after last week’s message and shared how that has been, or in many cases still is, an issue in your own household. And if that’s the case I just want to encourage you to work those things through with one another because it is affecting your marriage and your marriage will never be all that it can be until that leaving properly happens.

Understand this: when that leaving doesn’t take place, as God intends for it to, you are hurting your spouse and sabotaging the life that you are trying to build together. In the book of Ephesians we read that husbands are to love their wives “just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her.” (Ephesians 5:27) A few verses later we read that not only must a man love his wife in this way but that a wife must respect her husband. (Ephesians 5:33) Yet when that leaving doesn’t take place, a husband isn’t loving his wife, as Christ loved the church. He’s not laying his life down for her. He’s holding something back and not unreservedly giving himself for his wife. And it’s not just the men but it’s you women as well. If you don’t properly leave mom and dad then you are not respecting your husband as Scripture says you ought to be. This brings tension, hurt and pain and division into our marriages. God’s plan is something better.


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