Summary: Strengthing the Family
Foundations of the Family: A Place to Begin Again
Last week we began a series of messages concerning the importance of restoring the foundations of our families.
*The foundation - destroyed.
The reality of life is that we live in a sinful world.
Many people are hurt by the sin of others and left with tough choices.
2. Satan’s attack.
When we yield to Satan’s temptation to sin he fills our life with guilt, depression, and loss of hope
He tells us that we have missed God’s best, that it is to late to get right, or that we might as well give up.
These are all lies.
*The foundation - restored.
2. Although there are certain realities and consequences of sin we must face, it is never too late to start over with God.
3. God can give us a new plan and a new will from this point on in our lives.
I. Deal With The Past
A. Confess sin (verse 13)
1. Remove guilt and accept respons- ibility.
a. No one is totally innocent.
b. The question, "Where were we wrong?" must be answered.
c. Did we make a bad decision years earlier out of ignorance or rebellion to some authority?
2. Root issues help us understand why.
a. All of life’s problems can be traced back to four basic root problems:
1) self-image, 2) bitterness, 3) moral impurity, 4) temporal value system.
b. We have problems in life because we try to get our basic needs met in wrong ways.
3. The results of not confessing - verse 6 and 7.
a. We become unfruitful for God
b. We turn away from God while deceiving ourselves into thinking we are still serving Him.
c. We are no longer spiritually discerning.
B. Clear conscious (verse 5).
1. Zaccheus illustrated this concept.
2. He was willing to make restoration to all those he had wronged.
C. Accept forgiveness (verse 15).
2. Accept God’s forgiveness, and be ready and willing to forgive others.
D. Accept realities - change and limitations and consequences.
1. Things may never be the same.
2. Sin does change things, but they can still be good or even better.
3. We cannot change the past, but we can learn form it to give us a better tomorrow.
II. Directions For The Present
A. Recommitment - God’s way.
1. The evidence of true brokenness is: that we do not argue with God
2. We do not put any conditions on God
3. And we are not bitter when it comes to consequences of our sin.
B. Replace regret with rejoicing.
1. Regret comes from only seeing the consequences of our sin in our life and in the life of others.
2. David experienced this in regards to the death of Absaolom.
“And the king was much moved, and went up to the chamber over the gate, and wept: and as he went, thus he said, O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! would God I had died for thee, O Absalom, my son, my son!” (2 Sam 18:33)