Summary: Jesus is calling the church and every believer to live out a life of radical love.
A Radical Love
February 9, 2003
No words could ever express the great unhappiness I’ve felt since breaking our engagement. Please say you’ll take me back. No one could ever take your place in my heart, so please forgive me. I love you, I love you, I love you! Yours forever, Marie.
P.S., And congratulations on winning the state lottery.
A. The conditions we place on love
1. This humorous story reveals the reality of conditions on human love
2. We place conditions on our giving of love not the receiving
B. The unconditional love of Jesus
1. The love that Jesus gives to us is absolutely without condition – There is nothing we can do to lose His love and nothing that we can do to gain more of His love
2. Jesus asks a pointed question near the end of John’s gospel: “Do you love me?”
I. The Commitment to Jesus
A. The qualifiers of love
a.) Jesus had already met with Peter in private – 1 Corinthians 15:3-5
For what I received I passed on to you as of first importance: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Peter, and then to the Twelve.
b.) Jesus was affirming the leadership of Peter with the other apostles
2. Failure is not final
a.) Peter had indeed failed and failed miserably
1.) Peter made bold claims
Peter replied, "Even if all fall away on account of you, I never will."
Peter asked, "Lord, why can’t I follow you now? I will lay down my life for you." John 13:37
2.) Peter failed by denying Jesus
b.) Peter’s failure was not the end of his service for god and it was far from the end of God working in him
B. The qualities of love – 4 Greek terms
a.) Definition: This love rises from infatuation or sexual desire
b.) Biblical implication: This term Is never used in the New Testament
a.) Definition: This love rises from natural affection and relates to family love
b.) Biblical implication: This term is used in the New Testament to describe a parent’s love for a child
a.) Definition: This love rises from deep freindship or deep emotional affection
b.) Biblical implication: This term is used in the New Testament to describe personal relationships or “brotherly love”
a.) Definition: This love rises from God. It is a complete love that includes the mind, reason and will of a person. This type of love is primarily a product of choice
b.) Biblical implication: This term is used in the New Testament to describe God’s love and how Christians are to love one another and others
C. The question of love
1. Do you truly love me more than these?
a.) The point of Jesus – 3 Options
1.) Jesus could have been asking about the love that Peter had for his fellow apostles
2.) Jesus could have been asking if Peter loved Him more than any of the other apostles
3.) Jesus could have been asking if Peter loved Him more than the occupation of fishing