Summary: Bible Couples, Pt. 6 "Ahab and Jezebel"
BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR (1 KINGS 16:29-33; 21)
A young lady I have lost contact with for many years asked for my e-mail when we met at a wedding banquet and. Before too long, she e-mailed and called me. She was pretty, talented, quiet, helpful and sweet, the ideal spouse, mother, daughter or daughter-in-law material. A church musician and an active believer, she schocked me with her pending engagement to a Middle Easterner, a Muslim colleague at work, which dismayed her Christian family members. She had dated her fair share of Christians but they did not work out. She liked him, but not loved him. Nobody at church had the slightest clue she was dating, never mind marrying a Muslim. Further, the young Muslim man had visa problems and marriage would solve the issue.
After living in a Muslim country for close to thirty years, I cautioned her against marrying a Muslim. Muslims are barred from conversion by law. They have to give up their property and belongings to the government upon their conversion to another faith. Children of interfaith marriage are required to be raised Muslim by law.
The young lady nicely explained that upon marriage they will live in the States and not return to live in the Middle East, where the pressure to convert to Islam is unbearable. The young man assured her she could remain Christian, just as he could remain a Muslim, and that she could freely live the Western way, not the Islamic way.
I bumped into the person a few years after that talk. The two are engaged but not married and were on better terms with each other, but the lady’s strained relationship at home got worse and church friends still were kept in the dark.
Marriage is life’s big business, as the Chinese say. The Chinese say, “Marry a chicken, follow the chicken; marry a dog, follow the dog.” The decision is irreversible, the damage is irreparable, and one’s destiny is initiated.
Israel was split into two kingdoms after the death of Solomon. Solomon’s descendants reigned over the longer lasting southern kingdom of Judah, but the tumultuous northern kingdom of Israel was ruled by nine dynasties until its fall to the Assyrians. King Ahab of the northern kingdom was the son of the third dynasty’s founding king. Ahab was famous for his marriage alliances with other nations to prevent a war and to consolidate his throne, but it brought more danger and instability and chaos to the country. The introduction of the heathen Jezebel, however, affected so many lives and turned his family, the northern and southern kingdoms upside down. The reason why the southern kingdom turned idolatrous was because Ahab’s daughter Athaliah was given to marriage to the southern kingdom and she was as idolatrous as her mother who brought her up. Ahab and Jezebel were more powerful than any White House president and first lady in office, more vicious and more anti-God than any of the kings and queens before them.
Why is interfaith marriage against God’s will, an act of disobedience, and a marriage that is troubled from the start?