Summary: Some people are not enjoying life because of their past. This topic is about Biblical principles of how we can go beyond our unwanted past.
What we are today is a result of our choices of our past experiences. Some, if not all, of our choices and personal mindset today are still being influenced or dominated by our past. Some people cannot move on and experience meaningful living because of their unwanted past. For us to experience fruitful and meaningful living we must learn to get rid of them. God has provided us a way to be free from them.
Truths about Life.
• Unwanted past can be a: Failure in life; Offenses done to us; Our family background; Personal sin.
• When we are unable to deal with our unwanted past, we live in constant Shame, Bitterness and Fear.
• People who are motivated by these have a tendency to cover them by: Performance ; Seeking Approval; Blaming Others; Material Possessions; Seeking Pity from others
Performance- “ Meeting certain things to feel good about ourselves “ overcoming pain and significance based in performance
Fear - Failure
Approval Addict- “Be approved by others to feel good about self “overcoming pain and significance based on pleasing others “
Fear - Rejection
Blame Game – “Blame others and find fault on others” - Significance based on Projection
Fear - Punishment
I must have that syndrome- overcoming pain and significance based on material things and outside appearance
Poor me Outlook - “ I am hopeless, I can’t change “-overcoming pain and significance e based on receiving pity from others “
Fear- Lose handle
• Only God through Jesus Christ and His timeless principles can set us free from shame. No human means of covering can take it away.
Breaking Free from our past happens when we…
A. Repent, Receive and release forgiveness.
• If our painful past is a sin that we have done, all we have to do is seek forgiveness from God and believe that He is more than willing to give it to us.
• If the unwanted past is caused by the reccurent remembering of the offense we must choose to release forgiveness for our own peace.
• Sometimes we need also to forgive ourselves.
B. Receive comfort from God by surrendering our hurts to Him.
28 Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For my yoke fits perfectly, and the burden I give you is light.”
• Verbally sharing out our pain to others or to professional psychiatrist can be helpful but the help they can offer will still be limited. But if we humbly seek the comfort of God, he is more than willing and more able to comfort us because He created us and knows us even more than we know orselves.
1 David and his men reached Ziklag on the third day. Now the Amalekites had raided the Negev and Ziklag. They had attacked Ziklag and burned it, 2 and had taken captive the women and all who were in it, both young and old. They killed none of them, but carried them off as they went on their way.