Summary: Revenge is MINE, says God. When you lash out and take revenge on someone you are hurting them and yourself and usurping God's authority over the situation
Conquering the Giants
Message two of four
April 15, 2012
“Welcome to the Hamptons, a glittering world of incredible wealth and privilege, where smiles hide secrets - and nothing is colder than revenge. It's easy to see why the Hamptons are so exclusive. But no matter how guarded they are, they can't keep the truth out forever.” (http://abc.go.com/watch/revenge/SH55126554)
That’s the opening comment on the website for the new ABC drama, “Revenge.”
It’s the story of a young girl who returns to the Hamptons to exact – you guessed it – revenge on all the people who wronged her father when she was growing up there.
I haven’t watched the show personally, but I do understand it’s appeal. It is in our nature to “Go Get Em” “Get Em Back,” and “Give People What’s Coming toThem.”
Today, we are in our second message in the series, “Conquering the Giants.” Last week we knowck out FEAR. This week we will look at REVENGE.
Why do I call Revenge a Giant? Because the attitude of Revenge can consume you. A Giant in your life will control you, beat you down, stand in front of you so you cannot grow in your spiritual walk. We’re doing this series because we want to be free of the Giants in our lives. We want to stand up and stand against those Giants as little David did, slinging stones one-by-one to knock em out!
Listen: Revenge eats your soul, consumes your mind and Revenge usurps the power and authority of God and makes you God! What? Really? How does Revenge make me god? That’s where we’re going, but first let’s answer this question:
Why do we get hung up on revenge?
I have a good friend who lives up in NY now. Jon is a Private Investigator. Jon’s primary job for over ten years now is to follow and film people who have workmen’s comp claims. Large companies hire investigators to follow people they are paying workmen’s comp to. So, if in your claim, you said you could no longer, bend over, or lift over five pounds because of your injury, Jon is going to try and film you bending over or lifting over…
One day he was following a guy that was off work do to injury on the job of a large electric company. He filmed him cutting wood with a chainsaw in his back yard, racking his yard, playing with his dog, he then followed him to the electric company. The guy had to drop off some paperwork or something. As the guy was leaving the building, Jon filmed the guy running his car key down the side of four of the electric company’s trucks.
Why would this guy do that? Because something down deep inside of him said, “You will feel better if you key their trucks!”
Psychologists say the number one reason people exact revenge is so they will feel better. BUT, studies show that Revenge does not make you feel better.
WHY? Because in order to exact revenge on someone, you have to stoop to their level to do it.