Summary: This sermon deals with the God-given responsibilites of fathers.
Dad! Be Responsible!
1 Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.
2"Honor your father and mother," which is the first commandment with promise:
3"that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth."
4And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord.
Well, it’s Fathers Day!
Have you ever wondered how Fathers Day got started?
THE IDEA FOR CREATING A DAY for children to honor their fathers
began in Spokane, Washington. A woman by the name of Sonora Smart
Dodd thought of the idea for Fathers Day while listening to a Mothers Day
sermon in 1909. Having been raised by her father, after her mother died,
Sonora wanted her father to know how special he was to her. It was her
father that made all the parental sacrifices and was, in the eyes of his
daughter, a courageous, selfless, and loving man. Her father was born in
June, so she chose to hold the first Fathers Day celebration in Spokane,
Washington on the 19th of June, 1910. In 1924 President Calvin Coolidge
proclaimed the third Sunday in June as Fathers Day. Roses are the
Fathers Day flowers: red to be worn for a living father and white if the father
One time a little boy was asked to define Fathers Day
and he said,
“Its just like Mothers Day, only you don’t spend as much on the present.”
A survey on one of my favorite Preacher websites
had the following results:
40% said they don’t expect a gift for Fathers Day.
38% said just a simple card or gift would be fine.
18% said they would like to be surprised by their gift.
3% said Father’s Day gifts are a big deal to them.
Today’s story is about Robert Gleason. Robert is a 27 year old man who has a wife Barbara and a nine year old son named Jimmy. They live in a small Midwest community. You could say that Robert is a typical man. He has a job at a factory and works hard to make a living for his family. He likes to go deer hunting and fishing. He spends most of his free time tinkering with his pickup truck and watching sports on TV.
Let’s get back to our Bible text for today!
Paul has been inspired by the Holy Spirit
to write a letter to the Christians in Ephesus.
He closes this letter by giving instructions for the family.
Fathers should encourage their children.
And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath…
To whom is this command addressed?
It is given directly and explicitly to fathers.
Our text does not say, you parents provoke not your children to wrath, but you fathers…
This responsibility does not exclude mothers.
Fathers and mothers are to obey God
1 Corinthians 11:3 says:
But I want you to know that the head of every man is Christ, the head of woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.
The father is singled out because he is the head of wife.
Therefore, he is the head of the home.
Therefore the father is responsible for training of the children.
Unfortunately, today fathers drop the ball in this matter.
They leave the responsibility to the mothers.