Summary: This is the funeral of a 19 year old who was tragically shot and killed. His family was not a part of a church. The funeral was attended mainly by unbelievers.
Eulogy J. Green
It was on August 30, 1993, that God decided, this is the day to send the world another gift to touch the lives of others. No doubt his Mom was the first to feel the full impact of that gift as she suffered labor pains. But at the birth of her child, Jawaan, her heart was filled with joy at the birth of a beautiful healthy baby boy. No one knew what potential she holding in her arms on that day as she cuddled little Jawaan . Her thoughts that day were on being the best Mom she could be.
We all enter this world as children of God whether we are aware of it or not. Whether we believe in God or not, God has a claim upon each and every one of our lives. God has a plan and a purpose for each of us, because in our unique ways all of us have been created with gifts, with talents and with skills. How we choose to use them will make all the difference in this brief period between birth and death that we call life. One day, each of us will be called back to the God who created us to give an account for the life that we have lived. God has given us the ability to make choices for ourselves. Even though God loves us all tremendously, God will never force Himself upon us. He waits for us to turn to follow him.
Jawaun entered this world and became a son, a nephew, a brother, a cousin, a friend, a homie, a worker, and a child of God created in the image of God. He has made the journey from the heavens to the earth and to the heavens once again as we all will one day do.
It’s never easy saying goodbye to someone we love and care about. God shares in our suffering and grief in that the Lord knows the loss that we feel. Jesus the very Son of God, Himself cried in the bible with two of his friends, Mary and Martha, in the loss of their brother. They told him, “Lord if you would have been here, our brother would not have died.” We all would like to undo death or stop it from coming altogether.
But death is something that is as much a part of living as everything else is. It is not something that has to be feared. Jesus takes away some of the sting of death by telling those who choose for follow him. Jesus also said, “let not your heart be troubled, for you believe in God, then believe also in me. In my Father’s house are many mansions, and I am going away to prepare a place for you.”
Some ask “if God is loving, why is there death.” I see it as, because God is loving there is death. Can you imagine what a burden it would be to have to live life forever in the way we know it here on earth?
What it would be like to forever have pain in our bodies for hundreds of year, to have unforgiveness in our hearts year after year ,to be mad at people for centuries, to be addictied to drugs for decades, to be in bitterness in our soul, or to be stuck at the bottom of poverty forever. God has seen all the evil, and the madness, and the pain that goes on in the world, and God has determined that at some point this must stop. That point is death.