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Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 – Extreme Marriages

9 Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work:

10 If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up!

11 Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone?

12 Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

Marriage relationships are hard work. It is difficult to have a marriage that is strong enough to withstand the challenges of life, yet rich enough to satisfy the longing of the heart for friendship and love.

But thanks to modern science there is hope. Take a look at what research has yielded to help enrich your marriage relationship.


Now, now, that’s fiction. Some of you were ready to order one for your spouse. Pam had out her cell phone ready to order one for me ……..

So what does it take to make your marriage extreme – that is extremely strong, extremely loving, and extremely lasting?

• Marriage is important to the Father. God designed the first marriage, when He created Adam & Eve to be one in the miracle of the 6th day of Creation.

• Marriage is important to Christ. Jesus began His miracle-working ministry at a wedding. He is still doing miracles in marriages today!

• Marriage is important to the Holy Spirit. He is our “engagement ring” that connects us to the promise of our full marriage when we receive our reward. Our heavenly reward begins with the “marriage supper of the Lamb” where we are married to Jesus Christ as His bride.

o I’ve said that the first time I got married, I was the groom, but the next time I’m going to get married, I’ll be the bride.

o Now don’t you look at me funny like, what kind of church are we in where the pastor was a groom but is going to be a bride – That’s what Scripture tells us about our relationship with Christ. It is close, and intimate, and the closest thing on earth to the relationship God wants with us is a good, healthy, blessed marriage.


• “So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.” (Gen. 1:27)

• Men and women are equally important and are complementary to each other in God’s design.

• The creation of woman became a testimonial, for creation was incomplete without her.

• Think how colorless, how one-dimensional a world it would be if there was only your sex in it!

• Can you imagine living in an all-male world or an all-female world?

• You need to see and rejoice in the fundamental differences between male and female in order to enjoy the goodness God planned for you in marriage.


“And the Lord God said, It is not good for the man to be alone …………..” (Gen.2:18-22)

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