Summary: This is the 2nd study in the study "Intimacy" (Song of Solomon). This study looks at first dates and gives a couple of hints.

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Song of Solomon 1:7- 2:7

In our last study we found the Shulamite woman desiring to be with Solomon. She was also concerned about the fact that Solomon might be more attracted to one of the other “available” women.

In this study we find Solomon meeting the Shulamite woman and then having dinner with her. We will follow this date and see how the date goes. We also will find some helpful hints for dating and a very good “piece” of advice in the last verse of our text.

Setting Up The Date

Song of Solomon 1:7-10(NKJV)


7 Tell me, O you whom I love, Where you feed your flock, Where you make it rest at noon. For why should I be as one who veils herself By the flocks of your companions?


8 If you do not know, O fairest among women, Follow in the footsteps of the flock, And feed your little goats Beside the shepherds’ tents.

9 I have compared you, my love, To my filly among Pharaoh’s chariots.

10 Your cheeks are lovely with ornaments, Your neck with chains of gold.

Song of Songs 1:7-10(Message)

Tell me where you’re working- I love you so much- Tell me where you’re tending your flocks, where you let them rest at noontime. Why should I be the one left out, outside the orbit of your tender care?


If you can’t find me, loveliest of all women, it’s all right. Stay with your flocks. Lead your lambs to good pasture. Stay with your shepherd neighbors.

You remind me of Pharaoh’s well-groomed and satiny mares. Pendant earrings line the elegance of your cheeks; strands of jewels illumine the curve of your throat. I’m making jewelry for you, gold and silver jewelry that will mark and accent your beauty.

The Shulamite woman was getting frustrated because Solomon seemed too busy to meet with her. She was very anxious to spend time with Solomon and was afraid he just didn’t want to see her.

Solomon assured her that she just needed to be patient because he thought she was very beautiful. I am sure that she was very relieved to know that Solomon was attracted to her, but probably almost immediately she began to worry about how their time together would go.

It is interesting to watch how people worry so much. It is easy to laugh or criticize this woman for being so paranoid, but almost all of us have done the same. During the dating process, one must be patient and remember that God is still in control. I believe that sometimes we want something or someone so bad that regardless of what God tells us to do, we continue to pursue that anyhow. Be careful!

Just A Thought

Traditionally, men are the ones to initiate the dating process; but in recent years women have become bolder in these areas. How do you feel about women “asking” men out on dates?


Setting Of The Date

Song of Solomon 1:12-2:2(NKJV)

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