Summary: If you want to be free from the pressure to perform and impress others, don’t seek to impress others with yourself. Instead, just be impressed with what Christ has done for you on the cross.
Once upon a time an old man and his son were on their way to market. The old man was leading a donkey and the boy was walking behind when they went through the first village. There, the people called the old man a fool for not riding the donkey, so he climbed up on the animal’s back.
In the second village, the people said the old man was cruel to let the child walk while he enjoyed the ride, so the old man got off and put the boy on the donkey.
In the third village, the people accused the boy of being lazy for making the old man walk, so the man got on the donkey with the boy.
In the fourth village, the people felt sorry for the donkey, because he was made to carry two people, so when the old man and his son arrived at the market, the old man was seen carrying the donkey.
Some people feel a need to impress others, but all they end up doing is carry a heavy burden.
My dear friends, you can be free from the need to impress. You can be free from the pressure to perform. You can be free from worrying about what others think.
You say, Phil, How? I want people to like me. I want people to respect me. How can I free myself from the burden of trying to impress at least some of the people in my life? Well, if you have your Bibles, I invite you to turn with me to Galatians 6, Galatians 6, where the Apostle Paul shows us how.
Galatians 6:11 See with what large letters I am writing to you with my own hand. (ESV)
The Apostle Paul usually dictated his letters to a secretary. Then, at the end of the letter, he would take the pen in his own hand and write a closing comment (1 Corinthians 16:21; Colossians 4:18; 2 Thessalonians 3:17). Usually it was a short comment – a verse or two – but here his closing comment is quite long – eight verses! Paul feels very strongly about what he is writing here. This is not just a mere formality tacked on at the end of a letter. This is important stuff! And just so we don’t miss it, Paul says, “See with what large letters I am writing.” Today, we would put it in bold print and double underline it. Well Paul, what’s so important that you write this stuff in your own hand with such LARGE LETTERS?
Galatians 6:12 It is those who want to make a good showing in the flesh who would force you to be circumcised, and only in order that they may not be persecuted for the cross of Christ. (ESV)
You see, the cross was a cruel thing and terribly offensive, especially in polite company. In Jesus’ day, crosses were reserved for the worst of criminals, the scum of society. It was a horrible instrument of torture and death, so horrible that Roman citizens, by law, could not be hung on them – only “the Barbarians.”
So when Christians began to proclaim that Christ had to die on a cross for our sins, many people were offended. “What do you mean MY sin demands the penalty of the cross? I’m not that bad. How dare you suggest that I deserve crucifixion and that Christ had to pay that kind of penalty for my sin?” That’s the kind of reaction many people had to the preaching of the cross. The cross was very offensive, and because of it, many Christians found themselves hanging on them.