Summary: Judges, Pt. 6 (Final)
My wife and I did not marry young. We were in our 30s when we met each other. She was from Orange County and I was from Los Angels County, and the chances of us meeting, knowing and befriending each other were pretty remote. After graduating from Biola, she moved to Los Angels County to be near her job, but still commuted to her church in Orange County during the weekends. We met on the rare occasions she attended my church, but nothing was in the air until one rainy day.
The Sunday before Christmas, the pouring rain deterred my wife from driving 45 minutes in the rain to her church, so she decided to attend my church. Our acquaintance with each other then had went no further than normal greetings at fellowship meetings, but that morning, I delivered the sermon, baptized new converts and coordinated the joint worship since I was the only pastor in the three-language congregation.
Up to that point, my future wife had not heard me preach, since she attended the Cantonese congregation when she was there at the same hour I was preaching in the English congregation. She told me she liked the Christmas sermon and I immediately liked her good taste! The match could not be any better. The long wait for the right person was justified because God had brought someone sweet, nice and loving to me - one who has a heart for God, people and ministry.
Boaz, the great-grandfather of King David, the ancestor of Jesus Christ (Matt 1:5 (quickview) , Luke 3:32 (quickview) ), the Messiah-type kinsman-redeemer, was an upstanding citizen, of good stock and had an impeccable record. He was blameless, peerless and guileless. The landlord was beyond reproach, highly esteemed and husband material. However, he had yet to have a wife or a date, although he later found the woman of his dreams. The match was made in heaven and their love story was one for the ages. Their barriers included marital status, racial identity and social standing. Ruth was a widow, a Gentile and a hardworking migrant worker; Boaz was a bachelor, a Jew and a successful plantation owner.
What type of person are you looking for in a future spouse? What characteristics do you value and what characteristics do you offer? What kind of relationship does God bless?
Be Godly in Commitment
2:1 Now Naomi had a relative on her husband’s side, from the clan of Elimelech, a man of standing, whose name was Boaz. 2 And Ruth the Moabitess said to Naomi, “Let me go to the fields and pick up the leftover grain behind anyone in whose eyes I find favor.” Naomi said to her, “Go ahead, my daughter.” 3 So she went out and began to glean in the fields behind the harvesters. As it turned out, she found herself working in a field belonging to Boaz, who was from the clan of Elimelech. 4 Just then Boaz arrived from Bethlehem and greeted the harvesters, “The LORD be with you!” (Ruth 2:1-4 (quickview) )
A businessman was in a great deal of trouble. His business was failing, he had put everything he had into the business, he owed everybody, it was so bad he was even contemplating suicide. As a last resort he went to a pastor and poured out his story of tears and woe.