Summary: God calls us to live differently than those who do not know Christ.
Today, we will begin to conclude our series on “Finding Freedom In Forgiving Others.” In doing so, I want us to think together about how our Savior tells us that we, as His followers, are called to live differently than the world. (READ TEXT)
In our passage for today, Jesus encourages His followers to rise above the judgmental life lived by others to live a life characterized by
Let’s notice what He had to say about gracious living.
1. The nature of gracious living - v. 37
Gracious living is characterized by non-judgementalism, by acceptance of others, by forgiveness, and by giving of oneself to others.
Interestingly enough, the description given here by Jesus of gracious living sounds similar to what Paul said about love:
“Love is kind and patient, never jealous, boastful, proud, or rude. Love isn’t selfish or quick tempered, it doesn’t keep a record of wrongs that others do. Love rejoices in the truth, but not in evil. Love is always supportive, loyal, hopeful, and trusting. Love never fails!” - 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 (quickview) a (CEV)
It is important to understand the difference between being judgmental and discerning truth from error. In verse 37, the Lord says, “Do not judge.” Then, in verses 41-42 he warns against trying to correct others without first correcting what is wrong in our own lives. This passage does not teach that judgments should never be made. In fact, verse 42 specifically speaks of removing “the speck from your brother’s eye.”
The Lord’s point is that no one is qualified to discern truth from error or to minister effectively to a brother or sister if they are habitually critical. What might cause a believer to have a critical spirit and be judgmental?
A. Failure to deal with sin - Especially unforgiveness (v. 37c).
B. Failure to find one’s security in Christ - Criticism is often a subconscious means to feel better by “elevating one’s own self image.” By putting others down, they are inwardly trying to make themselves feel more important or to prove that “they know more.” Rather than finding their sense of security and fulfillment in their relationship with Christ, they are looking to establish a sense of worth by proving themselves to be superior to others.
“We do not dare to classify or compare ourselves with some who commend themselves. When they measure themselves by themselves and compare themselves with themselves, they are not wise.” - 2 Corinthians 10:12 (quickview)  (NIV)
C. Failure to acknowledge Christ’s Lordship - Criticism of others often reveals a lack of awareness of who we will each ultimately answer to - the Lord Jesus Christ.
“So why do you condemn another believer? Why do you look down on another believer? Remember, we will all stand before the