Summary: Be an encourager
Comfort - encouragement - 2 Cor. 1:3-7 Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. 5 For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows. 6 If we are distressed, it is for your comfort and salvation; if we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which produces in you patient endurance of the same sufferings we suffer. 7 And our hope for you is firm, because we know that just as you share in our sufferings, so also you share in our comfort.
Word to the grad. Class of 2002. The American dream is a myth - a rabbit trail. Dead end. I hate to dash your hopes but you may as well know the truth. The problem with "Happily ever after" is that is hardly ever happens.
Bigger problem than ever before - We invest an enormous amount of energy making heaven on earth. My world more desirable than any heaven I can imagine, DVD, surround sound Taco bell
Why is it that things that matter deeply to me don’t seem to matter to God at all?
Inalienable rights? - life, liberty and pursuit of happiness? Not according to God - Joy
Our GNP is up, income and standard of living is up - happiness is down, way down.
Happiness doesn’t bring joy - mostly a distraction to true joy - but you won’t believe me.
Ex. Of "happiness" ending in despair - lotto winners, actors and athletes, politicians and rich.
And living right is no guarantee of happiness either
Jesus told us to take courage, to fear not WHY?- He never said that we would escape pain, illness, despair. In this world you’ll have trouble - count on it - you were meant for another world
Film at 11 - Christian woman kidnapped, raped and dismembered. Christian father shot and killed in front of his sons. Pastor’s daughter loses a battle with leukemia, his faith shaken, he is released from the church he pastors. The best of homes experience divorce, addictions, unemployment, poverty, disease and death.
2 Cor. 1:8-9a We do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about the hardships we suffered in the province of Asia. We were under great pressure, far beyond our ability to endure, so that we despaired even of life. 9 Indeed, in our hearts we felt the sentence of death.
Don’t fall for the lie that God wants you to be happy. The Bible never says that.
God’s goal isn’t to make you happy, that is Satan’s goal
Happy means satisfied without God - treating God like a vending machine or massage, genie
Porn, food, drugs offer immediate and predictable satisfaction, but not lasting - Have you been asking God to do in prayer to fulfill the lusts of your flesh?
What is the purpose of despair?
Use the story of Acts 27:1-43 - stop with the boat wreck.
God uses Despair to shatter false hopes, to crush second best dreams
God uses pain and shattered dreams to awaken us and help us discover our desire for God.