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Healing an Old Wound
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• better immune system functioning
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• better physical health
• lower amounts of anger
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30 And do not bring sorrow to God’s Holy Spirit by the way you live. Remember, he is the one who has identified you as his own, guaranteeing that you will be saved on the day of redemption.
31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of malicious behavior.
32 Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.
It is easier to allow wounds to remain than to allow them to heal. Healing process is tougher initially, but in the long run, much better for us.
You say, “What’s the big deal about leaving an emotional wound unhealed?”
v.30 brings sorrow to the H.S.
A man who owed an overwhelming debt. Finally, he stands before the master to whom he is indebted & says, "I can’t pay the debt. I don’t have the money." The master takes the note & stamps it "Paid in full." Then he hands it to him & says, "Here, it is forgiven. You don’t owe me any more."
And that is exactly what God does. In His kindness he reaches down, takes our overwhelming debt & erases it. He takes it all away.
But you remember the rest of the story, don’t you? This same man then went out into the street & met someone who owed him a much lesser amount. He grabbed him by the neck & said, "Pay me now, or else!"
Too often we behave just like that, don’t we? Yet, Paul says, "Forgive one another because you have been forgiven by Christ."
Imagine how this makes God feel
v.30 b/c He has identified you as His own and guaranteed your salvation
You are God’s and what you do reflects on Him.
Is there someone you need to speak with to heal an old wound?
For Christ’s sake, heal the wound now.
You say, “How does one go about healing an old wound?”
v.31 get rid of what’s causing the wound to remain
Bitterness- bitterness is like a root; you can’t see it, but you can see its effects.
Rage- anger forthwith boiling up and soon subsiding again (like the effects of wine on a drunk).
Anger-root word is “desiring and stretching out for something.”
Harsh words-image is that of crying out like a raven
Slander- “Blasphemia”; speaking evil of someone
Malicious behavior-kakos: desire to injure.
You say, “How do I get rid of these? That seems impossible.”
Opposite of bitter is sweetness
Kindness is love with its work clothes on.
Not an emotion; it’s a choice.
Kindness is something that can eventually lead to forgiveness. Here is an example:
J. R. Packard wrote a short story entitled, "The Trouble Is." In that story there is one very moving scene.