Summary: What children owe their fathers. What children need from their fathers.
Today, as you know, is Father’s Day. It may surprise you to learn that Father’s Day is not a Christian holiday. By that, I mean it’s not recognized as one of the special days of the Christian Year which have been celebrated by the church for centuries, such as Christmas, or Easter, or Pentecost. In fact, the first observance of Father’s Day didn’t occur until 1910, when a woman named Sonora Dodd came up with the idea to honor her father. He was a Civil War veteran who had raised six children alone, after the death of his wife. Sonora Dodd proposed a day to honor fathers with religious services, special meals, small gifts and flowers. [Now, apparently, the flowers never really caught on. The gifts did, though. Especially the "small" part. Oh, you know what I mean. On her day, Mom is treated to dinner at a nice restaurant, and she gets all kinds of presents – flowers, and candy, and possibly even appliances. But on June 15th, it’s a different story. "Happy Father’s Day, Dad! Here’s your card! I put a stick of gum in it for you." Right? But that’s OK, ladies. We’re not bitter. You can have all that stuff, because we get the remote control.] The first President to support Father’s Day was Woodrow Wilson, but it wasn’t until 1972 that it was established as a permanent annual observance by presidential proclamation. So there you go. A little history with your sermon this morning. No extra charge. However, even though Father’s Day is technically a civil, rather than a religious holiday, honoring fathers is a very Christian thing to do. This goes back to the Ten Commandments:
How do we do that? How do we "honor" our fathers, as God intends? In several ways. For children and teenagers, those who are under the authority of their parents, honor is closely tied to obedience. And by "obedience," I mean not only outward compliance – doing as one is told, following the rules of the household – but even more important, a heart attitude of submission to one’s father, a willing acceptance of his authority. Paul highlights the importance of obedience in Ephesians and Colossians:
"Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. ’Honor your father and mother—which is the first commandment with a promise—’that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.’ – Ephesians 6:1-3 (quickview)
And so, if you are a young person here today, and you desire to obey God in the matter of honoring your father, it’s pretty clear what you need to do – obey him. Submit to him, whether you agree with his decisions or not. The Scriptures say that children are to obey their parents "in everything" – that is, in every area of life. And so, although cards are nice, and even flowers wouldn’t be a bad idea, the best way to show respect for your father is to respect his authority. And that pleases God as well.