Summary: Honoring Our Complimentary Counterpart Series: Making Relationships Work: Love, Sex & Marriage September 24, 2017 – Brad Bailey
Honoring Our Complimentary Counterpart
Series: Making Relationships Work: Love, Sex & Marriage
September 24, 2017 – Brad Bailey
Today…we are continuing our Fall focus on Making Relationships Work: Love, Sex, and Marriage. Began with God’s declaration that it is not good for man to be alone….and last week the purpose of marriage… how getting beyond our false expectations can bring deep freedom…and today God wants to speak into our differences as men and women.
Today we are going to hear what God has to say to us about our unique complimentary nature as male and female…men and women. God provides this poetic summary of life…revealing a larger reality…something about who we are.
Genesis 1:26-28; 2:18, 21-25 (NIV)
Then God said, "Let us make man in our image, in our likeness, and let them rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air, over the livestock, over all the earth, and over all the creatures that move along the ground." 27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. 28 God blessed them and said to them, "Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it.
The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him."…. 21 So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man's ribs and closed up the place with flesh. 22 Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man. 23 The man said, "This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called 'woman,' for she was taken out of man." 24 For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. 25 The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.
Again…much can be said…but this morning I want to focus on being created male and female… on being complimentary counterparts to one another.
Human life bears God’s nature – we have the ability to join God to further bring chaos into order… for life to flourish…and to be co-creators of multiplying such life.
But this cannot be done alone... it is designed as a partnership of two complimentary counterparts …and God is uniquely reflected in that partnership…of male and female.
And we get a picture of when Adam discovers Eve and is wowed because she was like him…but also…because she was not like him.
You can almost imagine Adam saying: “Oh wow….God …big improvement!” But hen begins trying to understand this mysterious difference.
And to this day man is still trying to figure out a woman…and women a man.
From whatever point one may believe it all began…. to this day…we are still trying to know how to relate to our complimentary gender. In fact…more research is being done right now than ever before.
Mark Gungor describes the differences between a man and women’s brain in humorous way.
(Below is adapted from Mark Gungor’s Relational Physics from… “A Tale of Two Brains” and was shared in more natural brevity.)