Summary: A sermon to help those who feel abandoned by God.
One of the loneliest times we can have comes when we face a time of need without having a loving friend to talk to about it. Everyone needs at least one trusted friend in whom to confide. Elisha A. Hoffman, author and composer of more than 2,000 gospel songs, was pastor of a church in Lebanon Pennsylvania. He visited a woman who had experienced many moments of emotional pain in her life. She told Rev. Hoffman of the many burdens on her heart and concluded with the question, "Brother Hoffinan, what shall I do? What shall I do?" He replied, "You cannot do better than to take all of your sorrows to Jesus. You must tell Jesus." For a moment, the lady seemed lost in meditation. Then her eyes brightened and she exclaimed, "Yes, I must tell Jesus."
From that experience Elisha Hoffman wrote a hymn which we still sing today: "I Must Tell Jesus." The beauty of this hymn is its honesty. The Christian life is not always happiness. There are times we feel exhausted and depressed. We are at wit’s end, without resources, at lost for a way, perplexed and desperate. That is usually when we see God begin to work. But before He does anything about our situation, He wants to do something about ourselves and that is where we begin to hedge. We want God to deal with our complication; He wants to develop our character. We want Him to change our circumstances; He wants to change us first.
The Psalmist David understood this. His psalms were written like a journal. He wrote eloquently of his joy as well as his sorrow. He expressed the feelings of his heart, whether in despair or times of joy and praise.
Psalm 13 (quickview)  is an example of his prayer during a time of despair. Saul and his army were pursuing David and he was hidden in a cave. David also retreated into the dark cave within himself. In the dark, damp and alone, he sang his laments to the Lord.
"How long, will you forget me, 0 Lord? Forever? How long will you hide your face from me?"
David will ask "how long" two more times during this song. The repetition is his way of saying, "God, I’m talking to you. I’m trying to get through to you. Can you hear me?" David has trusted God, he has been anointed king, and he has slain the mighty Goliath by the Lord’s power. So, where is God now?
At times it may seem that God has forgotten you and left you to perish in the gloom. As you go deeper inside your own caves of despair, your soul still cries out. How long will you be in this place, how long can you exist like this? If God has forgotten you, what hope is there? Will He hide from you forever?
It is not God who forgets; we are the ones who forget. We are the ones who turn away and turn within ourselves compounding the feelings of loneliness and feelings of abandonment. Your hurt can become so debilitating that it makes you feel there is something terribly wrong with you.
As David’s song continues we get a good indication of the source of David’s fear:
"How long must I wrestle with my thoughts and every day have sorrow in my heart? How long will my enemy triumph over me?"