Summary: God’s desire is for us to be builders of people (our family, fellow church members, co-workers, spouse, and kids). How can we do this? Let’s look at the negative example of the Pharisees and turn it into some positive principles.
How to Be a Builder (not a Bulldozer)
1. At the time of Jesus’ ministry to Israel, the Pharisees and scribes were the religious leaders who knew about the true God, knew the Scriptures, and knew about the prophecies of a coming Christ.
2. They didn’t appear as monsters; rather, they appeared to be very good people with high religious standards. Jesus said, figuratively speaking, that they made clean the outside of the cup – they made sure they looked good on the outside. They looked like a lot of churchgoers today – good, God-loving people.
3. But yet they were a constant thorn in Jesus’ side. They were sarcastic, judgmental, and very abrasive. The end of verse two summarized their approach to life, “…they found fault.”
4. They did not build up, but rather they tended to tear others down. They weren’t builders; they were bulldozers. They tended to be very destructive in their words and dealings with Christ and others. Get two images in your mind:
• A construction team building a beautiful new home.
• A bulldozer destroying a home, knocking over walls, etc.
5. The Pharisees were like that second image. They intimidated and bullied people. They were arrogant and demeaning toward others. Example: Luke 18:9-13
6. But God is calling those who are members of His church (body) to be builders. There is a great word in the Bible for this – “edify.” It carries the idea of building something.
7. The word “edifice” means a large and usually impressive building. Paul said that the Lord had given him power to “edification and not to destruction.”
8. God’s desire is for us to be builders of people (our family, fellow church members, co-workers, spouse, and kids). Romans 15:1-3a
9. How can we do this? Let’s look at the negative example of the Pharisees and turn it into some positive principles.
First, seek peace over preferences.
1. The Pharisees were worked up (vs. 3-5). Think about it – washing hands, cups, tables, pots, etc. Who cares? Only the Pharisees and their religious clique. It was one of their petty preferences. It was tradition, not Bible. What did Jesus say in verses 6-9?
2. This same thing happens in families and churches all the time. People get all up in arms over something that is strictly a preference.
• We all possess different opinions and preferences. Vanilla or chocolate, Chevy or Ford, Gators or Seminoles, Starbucks or Dunkin’ – neither is right or wrong. We can allow our preferences to cause conflict in our relationships with others.
3. Romans 14 speaks all about preferences. What does Romans 14:19-20a teach? A mature believer’s motto is “Peace over preferences.” When we are able to lay aside our personal preferences without griping (letting everybody know that we are unhappy), then we’ll know we are on our way to becoming a builder, not a bulldozer.