Summary: When it comes to getting people motivated reactionaries love to use fear, guilt and shame. However, fear, guilt and shame are only effective in motivating most people in the short run. Actually, the Bible says, "The fear of man brings a snare, but whoever
HOW TO MOTIVATE PEOPLE ACCORDING TO THEIR INDIVIDUAL PERSPECTIVES AND THEIR TRADITIONAL VALUES
Paul wrote, "Weep with those who weep and rejoice with those who rejoice." (Rom. 12:15-18)
When it comes to getting people motivated reactionaries love to use fear, guilt and shame. However, fear, guilt and shame are only effective in motivating most people in the short run. Actually, the Bible says,
"The fear of man brings a snare, but whoever puts his trust in the Lord is safe." Other religious reactionaries use threats, intimidation or anger to motivate their people. The Bible says,
"The anger of man does not bring about the righteousness of God." Instead of relying on extrinsic motivations, we should first discover an individual’s best intrinsic motivations. A person convinced against their will is of the same opinion still.
Do not be surprised if members of the religious reactionary movement accuse you of using psychological-babble. All truth is God’s truth.
Many reactionaries see motivation as a suspect enterprise, a pseudo-science. Some ultra conservatives think motivation talks are a carnal effort to use "secular psycho-babble" as a replacement for sound Biblical teaching.
Learn how each person is motivated according to their individual norms. Some groups primarily use external motivations such as societal pressures to bring about their desired ends.
For example, a student at our Nigerian seminary named Adamu, did not want to marry someone from his tribe. To his elders, Adamu’s decision implied a total rejection of their societies’ values. The elders warned him that he must comply with the traditional values or he would be considered persona-non-grata. Very few men in Africa are willing to refuse their tribal elders’ wishes for fear of the penalties. Each young man is expected to follow the specific cultural norms of courtship. When a young man marries he is expected to treat his wife, children and extended family members according to his own tribal conventions. If the young man fails to live up to these culturally normal behaviors, he risks alienation. Marriage is seen as a way of helping the whole tribe preserve itself and its cherished
Eventually, Adamu married to please his father who had already paid the bride price for his recently deceased senior brother’s fiancee. The father could not refund the money since he had already used it to purchase a corn grinding machine. Adamu married to save his father from shame. Anything less would have meant alienation from the extended family unit. The reason many parents do not lead their children in the right direction is because the parents aren’t going that way themselves.
Many western societies are not group-oriented and they value individual freedom of choice. In western civilizations each person is given the liberty to choose whom they would like to marry or to remain single. Individual freedom is much more important in the western cultures based on one’s unique education, family background, and community of friends.