Summary: This sermon tackles the difficult issue of lusting after any person that we are not married to. Tackling the issue can be very painful, but in the long run very fruitful
“If your right hand causes you to sin cut it off”! What did Jesus mean?
You’ll be pleased to know I come this morning free of sharp instruments except for …the Bible I am holding. The Bible says of itself that ‘the word of God is living and active, sharper than any double edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart” (Hebrews 4:12).
St Paul writing to the Church in Ephesus encourages Christians in the battle of good against evil, right against wrong, to take up a weapon – “the sword of the spirit, which is the word of God” (Ephesians 6:17). Jesus advocates one weapon for Christians, and that is the Bible, the sword of the spirit, the word of God; and it’s relevant for the battle out ‘there’ and for the battle in ‘here’ – our hearts and our minds.
So what did Jesus mean? “If your right hand causes you to sin cut it off”. Well, the phrase appears in the midst of a sermon of Jesus about the ethics of God’s kingdom; ethics Christians are called upon to adhere to in the ‘here and now’, even though much of the world does not yet recognise the kingdom of Jesus.
Archbishop Michael Ramsey would regularly say to new Church of England Vicars that he wanted them to go in order to “comfort the distressed, and to distress the comfortable.” That was the way of Jesus! Comfort for the distressed, and distress for the comfortable.
These words of Jesus apply directly to the believer, to the disciple of Jesus, both then and now. Those hearing him would have agreed that God’s plans for stability in family life and in society require that marriage is for one man and one woman. Marriage is a protective fence around that relationship, and sex is reserved entirely for within the marriage relationship.
Those hearing Jesus would have agreed that sex is the gift of God within marriage and I also agree.
Some of you may now be thinking, “OK, so what does that mean for me? What about my current situation, or situations and relationships from the past?” The fact is that there is not time this morning for me to try to cover ever eventuality so I want to say clearly that Jesus wants to get to the heart of the matter, and Jesus wants to lovingly, graciously change our hearts, just as he sought to reach the hearts of the eager crowd that gathered as he first spoke these words.
Jesus said, “You have heard that it was said ‘Do not commit adultery’. But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart” (5:27-28). Jesus refers directly to the 7th Commandment ‘Do not commit adultery’ and implies also the 10th Commandment ‘You shall not covet your neighbour’s wife’ (Deut 5:18, 21).
Just in case you’re wondering, this also applies to a woman’s thought-life! And it applies in regards to anyone that you or I are not married to.
Those who heard Jesus agreed that sex outside of the marriage relationship was wrong and agreed that a mind full of the desire for sex outside of the marriage relationship was also wrong because the marriage relationship is the place for it.