Summary: Eli failed to have a positive influence on his sons Hophni & Phinehas. Fathers have the responsibility of being positive influences on their children. But what responsibilities can be undertaken to accomplish this? To have a positive influence on your
LEARNING from a FATHER’s FAILURES—1Samuel 2:12-36
Father & son/Open cockpit ride thrill ride/Bartered price/Not 1 word or high price/Loop-Dive-Turn-Climb/ “You almost won!....‘Cause I sure felt like hollerin’ when my boy fell out!”
A Father’s Failure!
Homosexuality—Whatever trips your trigger.
Sex OK—Don’t get caught
Products of Evolution—Society—World
Eli failed to have a positive influence on his sons Hophni & Phinehas.
Fathers have the responsibility of being positive influences on their children.
What responsibilities can be undertaken by fathers to influence their children positively?
5 directives of having a positive influence on your children.
1—To have a positive influence on your children....
3:13-14—“For I have told him that I am about to judge his house forever for the iniquity which he knew, because his sons brought a curse on themselves & he did not rebuke them. “And therefore I have sworn to the house of Eli that the iniquity of Eli’s house shall not be atoned for by sacrifice or offering forever.””
Man is Head of household=Responsibility
Children left to themselves are a danger to themselves & others.
We may be blinded to sin/Restraint must be applied.
Hophni & Phinehas shouldn’t have been allowed priestly duties but family ties were basis for service. Therefore the application of restraint was of greater importance.
This is why many businesses fail with the original visionary. The children don’t share the vision & the vision is not incorporated into the working orders/by-laws of the business. Thus detrimental business behaviors go unrestrained when the visionary passes, also killing the business.
Eli—“All bark & no bite” — “All talk & no do”
Prov. 22:15—“Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of correction will drive it far from him.”
Prov. 23:13-14—“Do not withhold correction from a child, For if you beat him with a rod, he will not die. You shall beat him with a rod, And deliver his soul from hell.”
Prov. 29:15—“The rod & rebuke give wisdom, But a child left to himself brings shame to his mother.”
Loaded 18-wheeler/I-26 Down mountain/Speed must be checked every 5mph/If unrestrained, certain disaster!/Runaway truck ramps along way/No excessive measures needed if restraint applied all along the way/APPLY RESTRAINT
Don’t spank/Govt. says physical punishment is child abuse & cruel/BUT There’s a vast difference between spanking & hurting a child!/APPLY RESTRAINT
?You a positive influence thru APPLIED RESTRAINT?
?You have a Positive Influence on your children?
2—To have a positive influence on your children....
Be DILIGENT with DISCIPLINE(:22-25)
Explanation:(:22-25) Too Little-Too Late/Consistent
:22—“Now Eli was very old; & he heard everything his sons did to all Israel, & how they lay with the women who assembled at the door of the tabernacle of meeting.”
:23—“So he said to them, “Why do you do such things? For I hear of your evil dealings from all the people.”