Summary: We're called to leave so we can cleave and then weave our lives together so that God does not grieve.

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Leaving, Cleaving and Weaving

Mark 10:1-16

Rev. Brian Bill

February 25-26, 2017

We all wear many hats. Here are three that I put on.

• Pastor. As one of your pastors I have the joy of shepherding God’s sheep. Sometimes this involves ministering to people in pain and helping them through the hurts and heartaches of life. 1 Peter 5:2: “Shepherd the flock of God that is among you, exercising oversight, not under compulsion, but willingly, as God would have you.”

• Preacher. I also have the pleasure of proclaiming the Word of God. This involves faithful study of the Scriptures so that I communicate exactly what God has declared in His Word. I’m humbled by the admonition in 1 Peter 4:11: “Whoever speaks, as one who speaks oracles of God.”

• Person. I echo what the Apostle Paul declared in 1 Timothy 1:15: “Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am the foremost.” I am a person with problems and a sinner saved by grace. The first time I spoke at Celebrate Recovery I stood up and said, “Hi, my name is Brian and I’m a sinner.” The response was immediate as they warmly responded, “Hi Brian!” Recently I was with two Edgewood members who invited someone to gather with us in one of our services. One of the guys said something like this: “We’re a church filled with sinners and we’d love to have you join us.” Right on.

These roles work together well but there is some inherent tension in them. While I’m called to have compassion as a pastor I’m also constrained to communicate what the Bible teaches as a preacher. When we come to passages that are counter-cultural and even controversial, I’m committed to declare what the Bible teaches. My aim is to do so truthfully in a spirit of grace, knowing that I am a person with problems myself.

Jesus is not always “politically correct” but He is always perfectly correct. We must settle whether we will follow what Scripture says or what society says. We will not compromise by caving to culture nor will we clobber sinners. We’re called to be like Jesus who was “full of grace and truth.” (John 1:14)

As I mentioned last weekend when going through books of the Bible verse-by-verse, we’re forced to tackle topics that we might not choose on our own. If you want to watch, listen or read the message that dealt with the topic of sin and hell, simply jump on the Edgewood app or go to Here’s a summary of what we learned from the closing verses of Mark 9.

• Avoid causing a follower of Christ to sin

• Cut off anything that causes you to sin

• Live out the cause of Christ

Our topic today comes right from our text for today – marriage and divorce. This brings up all sorts of feelings, doesn’t it? Some of you are single and wish you were married and there are some who are married who wish they were single. Some of you have lost your spouse and this topic is terribly difficult for you.

Before we go much further, to those who are single, please forgive us for making you feel second-class or unimportant – whether that’s been done inadvertently or intentionally. It’s wrong when we put pressure on you to get married, or make disparaging comments, or tease you, or just leave you out of things. We must stop.

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